But her opposition to me using herbs (chaste berry for example) to reduce my interest is selfish. is it not? I offered to reduce my interest to closer match hers. But she told me that was ridiculous. I told her this situation is a problem for me as it currently is. This was a solution I'd researched. She rejected it, insisting she does want me. She vowed to "make more time" for it. Three months later and nothing has changed. I have not initiated sex in five years. The constant rejection got to be too much. I told her I would no longer initiate. She comes to me and gets it any time she wants it. My only deduction as to why she doesn't want me curbing my libido is because she wants me to be ready and willing any time she wants it. That is selfish
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