That's easy. God is uncontrollably drawn to anyone who has actions and attitudes like his Son Jesus.
Pick one of His attitudes and the associated actions which go with it that you like and imitate it as best you can.
Even if I am wrong what bad could come of it if you feed a few widows or homeless?
Well, that all depends on which attitudes or actions of Jesus one emulates. It seems strange that God would be attracted to someone for getting angry at fig trees, yet isn't attracted to someone who does good deeds for their own sake.
Now I have a question for you.
You are an atheist on a christian forum.
Nothing personal but that seems kind of odd to me.
There must be a history to this.
What interactions with Christians have you had that would cause this strange placement?
Please no names or anything specific just good or bad experiences you have had with God or other Christians.
I live in the UK, so most of my interactions with anyone are going to be interactions with Christians. I used to be a Christian, but when I started going to Church properly on a regular basis, I realised that I just couldn't believe all the claims the priest was asking me to believe - that Jesus existed, that he turned water into wine, that anyone gets eternal paradise just by believing in Christ whatever atrocities they've committed, etc. After I made that realisation, I looked back over my own beliefs, and found many of them unsupportable - the necessity or even existence of God, the goodness of God (especially in light of my having actually read the OT by that point).
My interactions with Christians themselves, in their capacity as Christians (and not incidental ones, such as buying bread from a baker who just so happens to be Christian), are minimal. I've talked to them in the street, or in church, but primarily it occurs here.
So, why am I here? Because I want to know why people believe things differently to me. Why do people believe in God? Why the Christian God? Why do Conservatives believe in restrictive social spending? Why do people not believe in evolution or the Big Bang? Why do people believe in a young earth and in a special creation, or in astrology and horoscopes, or in homoeopathy? Why do people think vaccines cause autism? That's why I came, but I stayed because many of my beliefs have changed since I came here, I enjoy coming here, and I've made friends here.
I can understand an atheist having an "opinion" God does not exist but to be a logical atheist you would have to prove God does not exist and a negative is impossible to prove.
I disagree. An atheist is simply someone who isn't a theist (hence the name), and a theist is someone who believes that deities exist - "I believe in God". As I don't say that, I'm an atheist.
I don't say "God doesn't exist", because I have no evidence for that. But likewise I don't say "God exists", because I have no evidence for that, either. I don't need to prove God exists or doesn't exist, nor I don't have to provide evidence for them, because I'm not asserting either of those claims.
That said, I also disagree that proving a negative is impossible - it's quite easy to prove that an invisible pink unicorn doesn't exist, by virtue of the fact that 'invisible' and 'pink' are mutually exclusive, and so to have both is incoherent. Therefore, invisible pink unicorns simply cannot exist.
More generally, it's even easier to provide evidence that something doesn't exist, by using the principle that "absence of evidence is evidence of absence". If the existence of something would leave a trace, yet no trace is seen, then that's evidence that that something didn't, or doesn't, exist. Elephants in my garden would leave tell-tale signs - even if their large, grey mass were hidden behind a tree, there would be noise, smell, poo, footprints, etc. Since none of those things exist, I can conclude that elephants do not, in fact, exist in my garden.