Chrysalis Kat
Gettin' Riggy With It
Perhaps it's the power shift in the roolz rather than the number that you are noticing.Crazy Liz said:ISTM we have more rules after the reform than before.![]()
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Perhaps it's the power shift in the roolz rather than the number that you are noticing.Crazy Liz said:ISTM we have more rules after the reform than before.![]()
It has come to my attention that some moderators have been particularly heavy-handed in their moderation and acting outside of our moderating guidelines.
For example, some posts or threads have been deleted when they do not break our rules. Deleting of posts and threads are the LAST resort.
I'ddie4him said:Erwin has already said to contact an Admin if this happens.
That is why the pm feature is there.
I've seen forums that take that perspective, and they ain't pretty. Which is why CF has rules...Texas Lynn said:... People should be allowed to say what they want as long as insults are avoided...
thereselittleflower said:Erwin
I am not seeing a change in this . . except perhaps it may not be happening as much, but still posts are being deleted when they do not truly break CF rules. And this action is not being used as a last resort, but as a first . . .
My concern is even greater now as there is no formal way to hold staff accountable for such actions or to get grievances regarding such actions heard . . .
How are members supposed to be able to deal effectively with such issues as they are still arising?
Chrysalis Kat said:Well... the problem with that is you can be given an OW for something minor and your "no big deal deleted posts" become justification for an OW on the grounds you've had too much staff contact. Regardless of the fact there is no connection between the issues discussed in those 'contacts' and the post that resulted in an OW.
That's doesn't make for much fun at all.
I have to disagree with this statement.Texas Lynn said:It seems the best communication is wonderfully anarchic. People should be allowed to say what they want as long as insults are avoided, and punishments for that should be meted out equally.
ScottishJohn said:I agree with Texas Lynn, people should be able to say as they like, barring insults. I'm not aware of when that system was tried on CF so can't comment on its alleged failure, what I can comment on is the failure of the rules. They are ignored by many of the mods, (jumping straight to closing threads, deleting posts threads etc), and used against posters whose posts contradict the personal views of some mods. Now you can attempt to go down the long and tortuous road of reporting etc etc etc. Most of us barely have enough tome to post on threads we are interested in. Are we interested enough in a big long appeal over an arguement on an internet board? Probably not.
If one is not mature enough and secure enough in ones own convictions to see a view opposing ones own in print without being offended, then perhaps one should not be on the internet. If one is unable to hold a discussion without resorting to insults the same applies. Easier to police, easier to understand, easier to obey.
As for other boards - I would argue that those boards which we have all been on that are out of hand, are not policed at all. Big difference from what we are discussing.
Erwin please dump the rules.
MQTA said:when you have to make sure certain things aren't said, then maybe it's time to examine your views. Mommy, he looked at me funny. Waaaaaaaaaa.
MQTA said:It's funny how it's ok for one group of people to sling insults and point fingers, but anyone who defends their pov without walking on egg shells gets bashed over the head.
prejudice? bigotry? surely not LOVE
MQTA said:Why can't we have unemotional discourse? Why do people take general things personally, and then hurl personal things totally unrelated to the topic, but based upon prejudices against the person who made the post, for whatever reason?
Good point.nyj said:These questions have everything to do with the people who post, not the rules which govern them while they're here.