This is a wrong assumption. But rather than defending that, let us look at scripture.
You mean rather than addressing that I'll post something I agree with?
Gen 18 "Then the Lord said, “The outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is so great and their sin so grievous
21that I will go down and see if what they have done is as bad as the outcry that has reached me. If not, I will know.”"
Oh my you've nullified the omniscience and foreknowledge of God with one Scripture! Oh noes! That little cherry picked passage has little to do with the knowledge of God. It's called "anthropomorphism", using human language in terms humans can relate to the Divine. It is rhetorical, as if the Creator of the universe, did not already know, as if all the prophecies in Scripture are guesswork, with the possibility of not being fulfilled, such that the Almighty has to continually make revisions for His lack of knowledge...sounds more like a man learning than God.
Gen 22:12 "Do not lay a hand on the boy," he said. "Do not do anything to him. Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son.""
The previous response applies here as well.
These are clear descriptions of God seeking information. What can we learn from this? Do not assume you understand the foreknowledge of God such that you can build a case on it.
I assume that if God is seeking information He is not all knowing (in the Orthodox sense of omniscience), that He lacks knowledge of the future, and therefore the argument from prophecy above applies. By your understanding, the prophecies concerning Christ could have failed, and Christ Himself could have failed considering He came to fulfill them, considering His whole life and purpose was based on them, considering others around Him (even Judas) were part of fulfilling the Scriptures concerning Him.
Also, you see clearly here that God looks at man's choices and makes his own based on the man's choices. That is my position and it is born out in scripture.
You have it backwards, using eisegesis while ignoring the plain teaching of Scripture:
Exodus 6:7 ‘
I will take you as My people, and I will be your God. Then you shall know that I [am] the LORD your God who brings you out from under the burdens of the Egyptians.
Deuteronomy 7:6 For thou [art] an holy people unto the LORD thy God:
the LORD thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto himself, above all people that [are] upon the face of the earth.
John 1:12-13 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the power to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: (13) who were
born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
John 15:16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and [that] your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.
John 15:19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but
I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.
John 6:65 And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that
no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
Ephesians 1:11 In Him also we have obtained an inheritance,
being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will
1 Corinthians 1:27-29 But
God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and
God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; (28) and the base things of the world and the things which are despised
God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, (29) that no flesh should glory in His presence.
Nothing in these Scriptures suggest that God bases His choices on our choices, as though He submits His sovereign will to the wills of His creatures. As though He tied His hands and said; "you're on your own, meet me halfway and I'll see if I can give a helping hand". As if!
This was not God's opinion of man. It is, however, an example of intellectual suicide. Man is free but man is not free.
No it is the difference between the regenerated will and the unregenerate will. The unregenerate will is in bondage to sin, dead and unable to please God:
Proverbs 20:6,9 - Most men will proclaim each his own goodness, but who can find a faithful man?. . .
Who can say, "I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin"?
Jeremiah 13:23 - Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the leopard its spots? Then may you also do good who are accustomed to do evil.
Matthew 7:17-18 - Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.
A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.
John 3:18-21 - He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and
men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
John 8:34 -
Jesus answered them, "Most assuredly, I say to you, whoever commits sin is a slave of sin." (and we all do)
John 14:16-18 - And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever,
even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive because it neither sees Him nor knows Him; but you know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you. I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.
Romans 8:5-8 -
For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.
For to be carnally [fleshly] minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
And I could go on and on with Scriptures, but why, considering the examples of Scriptural suicide in your post and comments.