What I'm confused about is how Free Will fits into the area of God's omniscience. If God knows everything, he therefore knows everything that everyone is ever going to do, and he has always known it, even before anything except him was in existence. Is it that we have the freedom to choose, but God already knows what is going to happen? It would seem that if he already knows what will be, and he is the only force in existence at that time, is that or isn't that equal to him planning it?
		
		
	 
The only way you can know for sure what will happen tomorrow is if you control it, I would say 
	
	
		
		
			If there is predestination, I certainly feel more sympathetic for many people throughout history. Take Judas for instance. He is toted as one of the most infamous villains in the Bible, but from the standpoint of predestination, he was only doing the job that God appointed for him to do (I mean, for Jesus to die and fulfill his plan of saving us, someone had to betray him so he could be killed). Then there's Pilate. He had a choice, set free a man and have a war on his hands that would get him executed; or kill the man to save the peace temporarily (you know, I never thought of it in that way, but Jesus's sacrifice also payed the price for stopping/delaying a possible war). Just like Judas, under predestination, Pilate was only playing the role he was scripted.
		
		
	 
God will do what is right with each person who dies. 
But - - - Judas was an evil person. Pilate was a wrong man who did not know Jesus. And it can happen that if you are a wrong person, this can have you in very unfair situations. Sin is not fair. 
However > we see in the Bible how some number of people were in hard situations, but they trusted God and did the right thing and He had things go in ways better than anyone could have expected. So, I'd not be sure there would have been a war, if Pilate had gotten the sense and guts and wisdom to stand with Jesus.
And getting executed for standing with Jesus can be good . . . except you could say what Paul says in Philippians 1:23-24; so you could say trying to get executed in order to be with Jesus could be a selfish thing to desire to do.
	
	
		
		
			I could list countless more, but I think my thoughts have been communicated. I definitely understand the Free Will side in that a world in which we are forced to do something by something outside of our power isn't love and has no meaning.
		
		
	 
Even though plenty of people in sin have wills witch are not free, still we need to relate with people as though they have free wills . . . meaning not to try to control them; but trust God to change them the way that would be good for them. Win people by our example > "nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3) 
How grace effects us is not forcing us, but transforming our nature so we become submissive in love to our Father. We in selfish ego do not  have the nature to make such a choice. The thanks and credit is purely to God > Romans 6:17.
Also, "God resists the proud" (in James 4:6, 1 Peter 5:5). 
God's resistance against our egos is not what we freely choose. But if we did not have God resisting us in our pride, we would get into much worse evil and suffering and tragedy, than those things which hit selfish people. But the things of God's resistance can help to slow people do from going all the way where Satan is taking them, which is so much worse. So, I can see He is not "loving" people by letting them have their own way. 
	
	
		
		
			I also believe that God is in control and it would go against his very nature if he didn't know what was going to happen all along. Could it be that there is a hybridization of sorts between the two that is simply beyond our capabilities of fathoming? How do y'all reconcile this issue?
		
		
	 
"Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor?" (Romans 9:21) So, "from the same lump" God has made vessels for honor and for dishonor.
We have all been made "from the same lump" as Saddam Hussein and the Apostle Paul and Mary who sat at Jesus' feet and corrupt politicians and Billy Graham and pedophile predators. All were made "from the same lump".
So, if I have gotten into any good way with God, who am I to boast? I could have become any sort of evil person, at all; if others "from the same lump" have become so evil . . . so could I.