Hello, dear friends!
I sit here asking for prayers for a dear friend of mine
who is stuck in a very long and difficult marriage
and has been so robbed of her self-esteem
that she isn't able to find a way out or what she has to do.
There have been more complications that have arisen
and she feels stuck more than ever.
Her only prayer now is for God to show her what she must do.
I won't use her name only to pray for 'luba's friend'.
Thank you!

Hi Luba Sis'
The last 'nine years', of my second marriage [of 30 years]
had me, in a very similar position
I had 'circulatory problems' [AN INVISIBLE ILLNESS] later called "Peripheral vascular disease"
I was 'daily' called: "a waste of space", "a lazy 'barsteward' ", "a shammer"
~in front of our six children
My authority with them was undermined [with the children]
"Take no notice of what 'he' says.... I said, you can"
The youngest was 19 years, to date of the divorce
Since that time, I have had four angioplasty procedures
and bilateral inguineal hernia repairs [both sides of the groin] at different times
More-recently, I have been diagnosed with Severe LVSD [heart failure]
and been told, that I damaged my heart perhaps many years ago
and that it had bucked-up ~to self-repair [to be able to cope]
but that, now, that effort, has worn it out
and created a few knocks in it's pistons
moderate regurgitation of Atrial valve and mild regurgitation of Tricuspid valve
[
in and out has problems] and is much less efficient
~
aka: 'a broken heart'
For sure, we will

for LUBA's FRIEND in Jesus' name
THE NAME, ABOVE ALL OTHER NAMES
That she be comforted
and strengthened
and be shown His light in her darkness
Jesus 'knows' her trials (today) and will see her through them
Ecclesiastes 3 (NIV) There is a time and a place for EVERYTHING
and, for everything, THERE IS A REASON

That your friend, leans upon, the everlasting love
and is able to be patient [but attentive]
and can wait upon the Lord's direction
I believe, that, when the Lord takes something bad away from us
~it is to give us 'something better'
your Bro'
dave