It is not me: it is the Holy Spirit in me that does the loving. And I am not perfect in that love; when I take back my own life I end up failing to love as commanded; and it is only when I let Jesus live in me and through me that I evidence that fruit of the Spirit, which is love. Now thank you for the compliment; however if it is genuine I give all glory and honour to Jesus Christ.
Now as concerning why I say that you are attempting to keep the commandment in the power of your flesh, consider and think upon the following scripture and what it means for you:
Galatians 3:1-3, O foolish Galatians, who hath bewitched you, that you should not obey the truth, before whose eyes Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth, crucified among you? This only would I learn of you, Received ye the Spirit by the works of the law, or by the hearing of faith? Are ye so foolish? Having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?