- Apr 21, 2020
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I’m a firm believer in “it’s not you, it’s me.” It’s better for the reluctant singleton to look inwards in a reflective way for answers to their status, rather than to look outwards and angrily towards their old partner.
People who have been jilted should think less condemnatory thoughts about themselves too, it may just be that the person who pulled the ejector seat on the relationship has some good reason for doing so. It might really be about them.
Relationships ending can bring a lot of blame around who left who and why, though when we are playing the blame game no one ever really matures or ends their relationship on good terms.
It’s an open wound that people expect their new partner to heal (though they simply aren’t equipped to do that.) Only we can heal our previous relationship hurts.
So in the spirit of self criticism, and for the reluctant singles, what’s the biggest (bad) quality that’s keeping you single?
Are you too forward, too shy, negative or demanding. Are you too intense on politics, religion or simple day to day disagreements. Without thinking back onto things we can’t change (namely old partners and their flaws,) let’s think on the things we can control (ourselves.)
So, what’s the deal with those meals for one? What’s the big quality that you’d call your relationship stumbling block?
People who have been jilted should think less condemnatory thoughts about themselves too, it may just be that the person who pulled the ejector seat on the relationship has some good reason for doing so. It might really be about them.
Relationships ending can bring a lot of blame around who left who and why, though when we are playing the blame game no one ever really matures or ends their relationship on good terms.
It’s an open wound that people expect their new partner to heal (though they simply aren’t equipped to do that.) Only we can heal our previous relationship hurts.
So in the spirit of self criticism, and for the reluctant singles, what’s the biggest (bad) quality that’s keeping you single?
Are you too forward, too shy, negative or demanding. Are you too intense on politics, religion or simple day to day disagreements. Without thinking back onto things we can’t change (namely old partners and their flaws,) let’s think on the things we can control (ourselves.)
So, what’s the deal with those meals for one? What’s the big quality that you’d call your relationship stumbling block?