One big (bad) quality that’s keeping you single

[Cormack]

Too secretive, possible reason noted, @Eftsoon. Although people do say women like mystery, could be your secret weapon my dude.

 

[Eftsoon]

Too secretive, possible reason noted, @Eftsoon. Although people do say women like mystery, could be your secret weapon my dude.

Well there is a fairly big difference between the two, though both are prone to hiding.

 

[Rigatoni]

My lack of swagger. Only reason.

...not the programming language per say, the other one.

 

[Saucy]

Despite seemingly being outgoing, I can be really shy when you first get to know me and I'm not likely to share feelings I have with someone. It's incredibly rare, even though it has happened. I usually wait until she makes it OBVIOUS anymore to avoid rejection.

Even though they say it's the guy's job, I would almost rather someone tell me they're into me lol

 

[Torah Keeper]

My religion. But I would rather be single than abandon my beliefs for a woman.

But for most men, they are single because they are too poor.
And for most women, they are single because they are too ugly.

Sad but true. Such is life.

 

[sampa]

Faith! That and I have terrible attractions that are Masters of the English language.

 

[sampa]

Despite seemingly being outgoing, I can be really shy when you first get to know me and I'm not likely to share feelings I have with someone. It's incredibly rare, even though it has happened. I usually wait until she makes it OBVIOUS anymore to avoid rejection.

With Bumble the girl makes the first move. That could be good and bad. If you're looking for a Conservative Christian gal though, I don't think that would be the environment. Most people are liberal there.

 

[Saucy]

With Bumble the girl makes the first move. That could be good and bad. If you're looking for a Conservative Christian gal though, I don't think that would be the environment. Most people are liberal there.

Thanks for the heads up! I think it's something I just need to work on and get better at. I think it might be a turn-off for girls.

 

[sampa]

Thanks for the heads up! I think it's something I just need to work on and get better at. I think it might be a turn-off for girls.

It could be, for myself it can be. I like guys who take initiative... But that doesn't always equal a connection or chemistry. I've been basically getting used to being rejected, but I take a step back if I need to and then jump back in the ring. I really don't want to be the one that takes the first step forward, but I've heard for more than one guy how relieved they were that I reached out to them. Which kind of encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone.

 

[Saucy]

It could be, for myself it can be. I like guys who take initiative... But that doesn't always equal a connection or chemistry. I've been basically getting used to being rejected, but I take a step back if I need to and then jump back in the ring. I really don't want to be the one that takes the first step forward, but I've heard for more than one guy how relieved they were that I reached out to them. Which kind of encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone.

I'll have to keep that in mind!