The choice is not in following the Christ but listening to His Gospel of the Kingdom and choosing whether to reject the will of man over the will of God, or to retain it.
Can you define what the will of man/God is?
Can you explain the difference?
My understanding of following Jesus is loving your neighbor, and when you love your neighbor, you love God. It's never been about sin, and refraining from it, but focusing on loving your neighbor actively.
At every moment, we choose.
I don't believe there is predestination, which implies that some are chosen, and some are not, and condemned with no free will. Rather, all are loved, are children of God, and the choice is whether you accept that, choose to accept God's love, and allow him to heal and change you through divine love.
I believe one reason some people prefer pre-d is that it implies that God chooses only some people, because he only loves some people, not all, so the believer can pick and choose whom they love as well. ("Don't even the pagans do that?"(")