I have also heard that as well. But, I won't leave. I will find a way to make the best of it. However, I am worried that she might eventually leave if we don't figure this out. I think she feels like she has ruined my life by not being honest with how she felt from the start and now that we have a family we are kind of stuck. But once the kids are out of the house, I am worried the reason to stay might no longer be there in her eyes. I think she is projecting on me though and feels like her life is ruined or at least not what she feels like it should be.This is unfair.
He clearly says that he has tried everything that she has asked.
Spousal neglect is grounds for divorce, and one that is accepted in many Christian circles because of the clear direction in the Bible that we should meet each others needs.
Have you tried massage?
I know the versus you speak of and I have read them often and prayed about it wondering what God would think about her refusing me. But then I think....what if she were in an accident or me and we couldn't be together in that way...would I leave? No. I guess this is maybe harder because it seems like a choice she is making, not something she has no control over. It feels like she is doing this on purpose rather but it is probably me trying to justify it.
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