Shannonkish said:
I am not Reformed, so I can't debate... but I can answer your question---
Yes, it is possible for one to read the Bible and still not believe in hell.... I am one of those that has read the Bible throughout.... multiple times... and have walked away not believing there is a hell..
For more on my thoughts---
http://www.christianforums.com/t2103751-%5Breality-of%5D-hell.html
I followed you link and I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother. I understand how it is to lose someone that you love very much. I don't mean to be unsensitive, but could your denial of the biblical doctrine of hell stem from an unwillingness to assess your mother's true spiritual condition and a desire to assure yourself that you will one day see her again? I too lost somebody that I loved very deeply-my uncle-and I don't know whether or not he was Christian. My father's father does not believe in God and absolutely refuses to talk about religion. He has Parkinson's and various other illnesses-I fear that he will not be with us for too much longer. I almost cry when I think that if he were to die right now, a sinner mocking an Angry God, that he would go to hell and I would never see him again. However, I try to keep these verses in mind-
Rom 9:19Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will?
Rom 9:20Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed [it], Why hast thou made me thus?
Rom 9:21Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?
Also, Romans 8:28 is helpful in granting the peace that God is working all things for the good of His elect.
As for hell, Jesus Himself speaks of it:
Mar 9:42And whosoever shall offend one of [these] little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea.
Mar 9:43And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Mar 9:44Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.
Mar 9:45And if thy foot offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter halt into life, than having two feet to be cast into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Mar 9:46Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.
Mar 9:47And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out: it is better for thee to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye, than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire:
Mar 9:48Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.