pjw said:
you've missed Cappadocian's point. she's saying that you focus too much on salvation as an escaping the wrath of God, and miss the part about restoring communion with God, becoming partakers of the divine nature, and enjoying His love and being in His presence for ever.
Go back to Jon's post from the Westminster Catechism. Or try Keach's Catechism:
Q. 1. Who is the first and best of beings?
A. God is the first and best of beings.
(Isaiah 44:6; Psalm 8:1; 97:9)
Q. 2. What is the chief end of man?
A. Man's chief end is to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever.
(1 Cor. 10:31; Psalm 73:25-26)
Q. 41. What benefits do believers receive from Christ at death?
A. The souls of believers are at death made perfect in holiness, and do immediately pass into glory, and their bodies, being still united to Christ, do rest in their graves till the resurrection.
(Heb. 12:23; Phil. 1:23; 2 Cor. 5:8; Luke 23:43; 1 Thess 4:14; Is. 57:2; Job 19:26)
Q. 42. What benefits do believers receive from Christ at the Resurrection?
A. At the resurrection, believers become raised up in glory, shall be openly acknowledged and acquitted in the day of judgment, and made perfectly blessed in the full enjoyment of God to all eternity.
(Phil. 3:20,21; 1 Cor. 15:42,43; Matt. 10:32; 1 John 3:2; 1 Thess. 4:17)
Q. 43. What shall be done to the wicked at death?
A. The souls of the wicked shall at death, be cast into the torments of hell, and their bodies lie in their graves till the resurrection and judgement of the great day.
(Luke 16:22-24; Ps. 49:14)
Q. 44. What shall be done to the wicked at the day of judgement?
A. At the day of judgement, the bodies of the wicked, being raised out of their graves, shall be sentenced, together with their souls, to unspeakable torments with the devil and his angels forever.
(Dan. 12:2; John 5:28,29; 2 Thess. 1:9; Matt. 25:41)