If you are part of a ministry team that cares for people, and you are aware of someone having a struggle that you should report, and they tell you that they have not talked to any of the leaders - and are thinking of changing churches ... but they won't talk to you any further knowing you are on this team - and you know they don't want you to talk to the leaders. What the heck do you do? I understand why the leaders stick together a bit ... avoids conflict of interest!