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Jonaitis

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Please, talk to your elders if you really are seeking help. I encourage accountability partners, but your elders/pastor should know how to address this with you and help you, holding you accountable. They should be personal and connected with their congregation and every individual members in it, and we should not hold back from them what we need help in. They are meant to shepherd the flock, tending to their struggles and spiritual health.

Sure, it is embarrassing for someone your age to do this, but it is better to tackle it now than doing it alone and in your own way.
 
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How to I use the conversation feature? sorry Im new

should be a inbox on top of the page and in that inbox there should be a conversation called brothers in need you should be able to enter into it if not let me know
 
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Hello and welcome to CF. :)

We have a men's only section where these issues can be better addressed. I can't post a link because I'm a woman and they are not accessible to me, but hopefully someone here can post for you.

(My apologies if this has been said - I'm at work and just have a moment.)

Prayers for you!
 
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your profile should be right next to the inbox and hover your mouse over your profile and you should scroll down and find conversation and press that option and it will allow you to start a conversation and send invites to others and allow you to make the conversation private so that way it's between just the people invited
 
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Hi everyone,

Im a 24 year old guy from Australia, I have trouble controlling my lust and have fallen into the trap of masturbation and inappropriate contentography, I need help. I came here because the Lord said there is strength in seeking help, so here I am pleading for help from my brothers and sisters in Christ, because I want to be free to pursue the Lord with all my heart, please help me, I feel so guilt.

We all need an accountabilty partner and it is so hard sometimes to share with someone who already knows you...so hard to reveal the dark parts of us that we think are so unique to ourselves.
 
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Hi everyone,

Im a 24 year old guy from Australia, I have trouble controlling my lust and have fallen into the trap of masturbation and inappropriate contentography, I need help. I came here because the Lord said there is strength in seeking help, so here I am pleading for help from my brothers and sisters in Christ, because I want to be free to pursue the Lord with all my heart, please help me, I feel so guilt.
Push through the guilt, you'll see it's only an illusion.
 
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I suffered from masturbation addiction until my covers moved with something invisible under them. I was very very weak until I prayed prayed prayed I'm in my 30s and did not realize masturbation was a sin until recently. It caused me to isolate myself as well. . . My vibrators left me little to no true interest in men (demonic). Keep praying and I will pray for you
 
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