Thank you so much for your answer. How do you know I haven't forgiven my father and sister. I have done it multiple times, I've fasted for them. The least thing I need to know is that not just them, but even God has a problem with me.
Beloved one,
I am glad that you have chosen the path of forgiveness and have fasted for them. I am not saying that you have not forgiven them but I don’t know whether you have forgiven or not from what you said earlier said to me. I am just telling you to be mindful of the path of forgiveness so that you abide in Christ’s love. As we walk on the earth, dust may gather at our feet.
For we heard our Lord said:
Jesus said to him, "The one who has bathed does not need to wash, except for his feet, but is completely clean. And you are clean, but not every one of you." -John 13:10
Daily we need to release forgiveness to anyone, for we don’t want our prayers hindered and go unanswered. Having forgiven, we can rest in the Lord’s love. For we heard:
Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. -Romans 5:1
Through him we have also obtained access by faith
into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. -Romans 5:2
Beloved one, we stand in the grace of God, that is, the love of Christ.
Beloved one, much I share about forgiveness to what end, that your family may be delivered; not only that you, but your mother, sister, and father. Look over again what I have written earlier, much I shared that you may be given the strength to pray for their behalf, that you may also come before God on their behalf, seeking the Lord’s mercy, that they, too, may obtain forgiveness with you; that they, too, may be reconciled to God.
Beloved one, it was never in my mind when I wrote you earlier to judge or even to harm you. If you see the spirit in which I wrote to you, I comfort you in your afflictions with which I myself am comforted by God.
Beloved one, I am not saying that you have a problem with God but I am trying answer your question how to live a normal life in God, being mindful what He has said, that you may be strengthen with His love.
Beloved one, if you still consider me that I offend you, I am not ashamed to ask your forgiveness from you before all. For I share much not to hate you but to serve you through the love of Christ.
Beloved one, if you consider carefully what I have written much, you know that I don’t share with you only on forgiveness. As we are strengthened daily through the love of Christ, that we are forgiven, eventually as we faithfully obey what Christ have spoken, we gain the strength to love those who wronged us. For we heard:
Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. -1 Peter 4:8
Beloved one, much I have said that you may be given the strength to love all members of your family, for what you have suffered for righteousness’s sake, through your love united in Christ, cover a multitude of sins in your family. Not only you have a normal life in Christ but also all members of your family.
May God’s peace be with you and your family in every way. Amen.