I havent played shadowBand. Some of the reviews were not too great on release so I passed it up. I hear some of the players giving good reviews of it though. I dont know anyone personally that is playing it though.
I played Ultima Online for over four years but left after they released Age of Shadows. I was really big into the trade skills such as blacksmithing but they pretty much ruined it to the point where you cant sell a thing any longer. It was fun it its day. It was pretty fun sharing my faith with others in the game and with those in the guilds I played with. They are releasing Ultima X:O next year but its shaping up to be a pure mmog hack and slash game with no real economy so I doubt Ill be giving it a try.
EQ for two years and still having fun. I play a Ranger and a Cleric and try hard not to let the game eat up all my time. I belong to a small Christian guild and when I return later next month (taking short break) I have my eye on a second Christian guild I may join as well. Im looking forward to EQ2 especially since they will be offering player owned ships like I had in UO. I like playing a good guy Pirate the most so it should be interesting. Good guy pirate?!? hehe Robin Hood of the sea I suppose.
Played AC2 but to date its still full of bugs and seriously lacking in content. But if you like having a dungeon all to yourself, well no one else is around playing the game.
World War II Online is fun. Its a lot like Battlefield 1942 but with a lot of other players on the battlefield. You could sit and guard a city for an hour with out any action and then all of the sudden be under siege by 50 enemy players and a cut supply line.
I also play a little tibia and The 4th Coming, which you can play for free. They are very out dated in graphics but they play very well on my laptop when I just need a break and dont really want to start up my desktop computer.
Main reason I play MMORP Games is because I found out I can save a lot of money each year with subscriptions and expansions compared to buying traditional computer games that dont seem to hold my interest too long. MMOGs are always adding new content and there are always new ways to play the same old game keeping it reasonably fresh. I also like the idea that I can play with other people in the social setting, as it is, giving me the option of pick and choose whom I play with in the virtual world setting. Ehh, it works for me.
Oh, I left out a few other games but maybe for another time.

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