baker said:
Twhite,
I agree with you here. I would add that my wallet and efforts are also to the lord for my charitable giving.
I'm glad we agree on that.
But my question, and it really is a serious one, is why the lds church "requires" it to go to them.
For similiar reasons that you provided below with the orginization you donate to.
The church is in a material world and things cost money. I use almost daily resources provided by the church. While I can't name all the things that are funded through tithing (maybe someone else can) I do see some clear benefits of that tithing that I enjoy.
My focus is more on a grateful and cheerful heart as I give. Not gratitude to the to church for my blessings since they ALL come from the Lord. Just as Jesus asked the rich young man to sell all he had, as a test for him to see his priorities and loyalties, I use tithing in a similiar manner to help me with my priorities to the Lord.
Anyone knows things cost money and I do expect the church to use the money I donate to the Lord for purposes that the Lord sees as appropriate. As I stated earlier, I benefit from some of those tithing purposes, chapels, stake centers, temples, etc...
I used to be very materialistic in times past. Tithing has helped me come to grips with this problem and has blessed me because of my faithfulness to the Lord.
I am a past executive director and current board member of a couple of homes for boys and girls who come from bad environments but are otherwise smart kids. Our program houses, feeds and puts them through middle school, private high school and college. It is one of the most worthwhile christian programs I've been involved with. The kids come from and practice various faiths, including Islam and Judaism. I give money, time, and raise money for the program. All publically disclosed.
The money I give would, by itself, meet any biblical requirement for "tithe", let alone the time and effort. But I do not give this to any "church" so to speak. Also, the program and it's outcome are one of the greatest examples of what Christ teaches.
If I was lds and chose to use this as my "tithe to the lord" requirement and give no money directly to the church, why isn't that acceptable. Correct me if I'm wrong, but under that form of tithing, I would not meet your temple recommend requirement, would I?
I may have mentioned to you before about the letter of the law and the spirit of the law.
By the letter of the law you would NOT meet temple requirements.
By the spirit of the law and if I was the interviewer I would say that you would. Of course there are other issues, but they're irrelevant right now.
On a personal example for me of this exact thing you're talking about is regarding fast offerings, which we pay to the church when we fast once a month. The money not used from the meals that are fasted are donated to the church.
My mother in law lives in a third world country and often has difficulty providing for her basic needs. I am not by any means wealthy or close to it and I have had difficult times in helping her with her financial matters.
I counseled with my bishop and he gave me the advice to use my fast offering to give to her in stead of the church, since the purpose of it is to feed those who are without. I do this every month.
This is a great example of the letter of the law and the spirit of the law. There is always a principle behind every requirement / commandment that is far more important than the law itself.
Tom