Yes, Moscow not only recognizes the OCA's Autocephaly, they granted it in 1970. Still, to have a conference dealing with Orthodoxy in North America and not invite North American bishops is a slap in the face of North American Orthodox Christians. And people wonder why I have very little respect for the EP.
I concur that it is a slap on the face, but I can not share the disrespect sentiment towards the EP no matter how much I find myself in disbelief over this whole mess. The EP is still a bishop.
The fact of the matter is this: Orthodoxy is growing in North America. It is not because all the Greeks, Slavs, Arabs and Romanians are having fifty plus kids in their families, but because Americans who have histories not of Orthodoxy, but of Protestantism, Catholicism and non-Christian religions are becoming Orthodox.
Fr. Seraphim Rose, of blessed memory, was a Buddhist and became Orthodox. Fr. James Bernstein, whose parish is less than fifty miles from my own, was an Orthodox Jew. A man in our choir was supposed to be some prophet when he was Mormon before becoming Orthodox. Another person in my parish was, from what I've heard, dabbling with neo-paganism before becoming Orthodox. We have five priests at our parish. One was Pentecostal, two were Anglican, one was part of a fake-odox cult and the fifth was born and raised Orthodox. Most of our parish comes from non-Orthodox backgrounds. I would say that about thirty people in our parish of about 150 are originally from the "Old Country" we hear so much about. I would say about half of the kids (ages less than one to seventeen) in our parish are cradles whose parents were converts. We had a reader who is part Native Alaskan who was raised Orthodox, went Protestant and reverted back to Orthodoxy.
Most of the blogs of Orthodox laity and/or clergy are converts. Look at all of the bishops in North America. How many of them are converts? What were they before they were Orthodox? How many of them are not converts?
Orthodoxy in America is not the Greek diaspora. It is not the Slavic diaspora. It is not the Romanian diaspora. It is not the Arab diaspora. Those who comprise of the diaspora are a part of Orthodoxy in America, but they are not the whole of Orthodoxy in America. The "Orthodox-ness" of America is not judged solely on the diaspora, but on how we all live our faith regardless of where we came from, who our ancestors were or where they came from. We are all support beams of the Church in America regardless of where we came from or what language is our mother tongue. The Church in America is not solely the diaspora. The Church of America is comprised of both people who are themselves diaspora and converts who are not diaspora. Thus, the Church in America is held by all Orthodox on this continent. Any, in my opinion, who forget or neglect any part of the Church here might as well go Muslim or Eastern Catholic by how much they misconceive Orthodoxy in America.
What I see from the "Old Country" is a neglect of those who are not the diaspora. What I see from some of us in the "New World" is a neglect of those who are from the "Old Country" who brought us this great faith of Orthodoxy. Like Metropolitan Jonah said, "There is an American Orthodox Church. Leave it alone".
In my not so humble opinion, that would be best because the reality of it is this: most of the Orthodox in America are not part of some diaspora or are the decendents of those who were part of a diaspora. The reality of it is this: people are becoming Orthodox who are not Greek, Arab, Romanian or Slavic. People are becoming Orthodox who were once Jews, Protestants, Roman Catholics, neo-pagans, Buddhists, Mormons, Jehova's Witnesses, Hindus, Muslims or part of a cult or had no faith in anything at all. That is reality. The face of Orthodoxy in America is mostly made up of those who converted to Orthdoxy. From what I am seeing, that part of the face of Orthodoxy in America is being cast aside because it is not Greek, Slavic or any of that. That is the greatest travesty of all.
If the Orthodox Christian faith were exclusive to only a select group of people, than I only know of one person who would be Orthodox: Fr. James Bernstein because he was Jewish. If the Orthodox Christian faith were exclusive to only a select group of people, then we would all still be pagans or became Muslims.