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Has anyone considered castration?
I guarantee it would solve about 95% of your problems.
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There are doctors that will do it.
touching yourself can bring about lustful thoughts which are sinful
take heart he loves you he died so sin is no longer whom you call master but so that god becomes master
That is fine if you want to spend hours upon hours watching them. I simply do not have time to spend an entire day to watch the dozen or more that have been put in the thread. May I suggest however that you direct it to Brinny. By quoting me it appears that you are directing the comment at me rather than Brinny.I like the videos brinny please don't stop posting them. There are some who may not want to hear or see them but there are others who appreciate them very much. Thanks!!
hhm how controversial looks like its down to speculations unfortunantly. one persons opinions about the scripture versus the next persons. The only way to get an answer I reckon is by asking God himself.
Which is hard I have no idea if I am getting an answer my mind has given me because it wants to satisfy my need by giving me the one i want I then doubt it...By getting the opposite I then think did my mind do that because it knows I would doubt the alternative? Or is it actually God? but I think others are able to do it properly....that however is a whole different topic.
OK....let us do the math:
1. Is there anything in the bible that says masturbation is a sin.
2. You sin everyday of your life believe it or not.
3. You shouldn't worry about sin too much...I think christians blow sin out of proportion...do you really think God will treat your life any different because you touch...come on now. Sin does not condemn you to hell lol.
4. Uhhh isn't it lustful thoughts that brings about masturbation.
5. Focus on the important matters really..are you harming anybody by masturbating?
I can comment on number 4.
Lustful thoughts of my wife is what causes me to MB. I only MB to thoughts of my wife.
Seems no one really could comment on whether that is wrong or not. The sin comes in when you have lustful thoughts of a woman that is not your own, in other words your wife. So if my thoughts are of my wife, where is the sin?
None that I can see, especially since MB is not a sin in of itself, but the thoughts of another woman is what causes us to sin.
Even though you may have thought of a woman and sinned, it's ok as long as you do not act upon that thought. That then becomes adultery in your case lol.
Lustful thoughts in any way is wrong, because lust is of the flesh. What does the Word say?
This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Aren't the two verses above telling enough that any lust of the flesh is sinful and forbidden?
I believe your intreptation of that scripture to be wrong when speaking of husband and wife. How do you think that sex happens between husband and wife?
When a wife puts on lingerie what do you think goes through the mind of a husband, pure thoughts? Butterflies and roses? No! What goes through a man's mind are the things that he wants to do to his wife once that lingerie is removed or even with it on.
That's what starts sex. Are you going to tell me it's wrong?
Terene, as I mentioned in this thread before. I have talked to God about this very thing. I have never been convicted for MB.
My wife has multiple sclerosis and if we have sex once in a month, we've had a good month. I have a huge sex drive. For me the need is at least once a week, preferably more often. I MB to relieve that need so that I'm not bugging my wife for it.
I recently prayed and talked to God about my MB again and what I was given in response is not to think of other woman as that's adultery just as you metioned. However, thoughts of my wife are fine. She is my wife, is she not? Se's not another woman and as I have already said, one must have lustful thoughts in order to initiate sex within marriage. Generally, one is not thinking of butterflies and roses in order to get in the mood for sex.
It has nothing to do with who you are expressing that lust to, any lust of the flesh is wrong and ought to be crucified. I thought the verses I quoted were clear enough? Those who belong to Christ crucifies the flesh with ALL its lusts and passions?
but you can not commit adultery with your spouse so looking at your wife lustfully is not adultery.Lustful thoughts in any way is wrong, because lust is of the flesh. What does the Word say?
This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
Aren't the two verses above telling enough that any lust of the flesh is sinful and forbidden?
but you can not commit adultery with your spouse so looking at your wife lustfully is not adultery.
The first verse from galations is when read in context about not being a slave to the law but rather relying on Christ for our salvation. It is not talking about the specific lust of sexual lust and is not relevant to this topic.
For the second verse you seem to have used a different translation to the first and I was unable to find the reference. Perhaps you could mention which translation/paraphrase you are quoting or better still the scripture reference so one can look it up easily and read the context.
It has nothing to do with who you are expressing that lust to, any lust of the flesh is wrong and ought to be crucified. I thought the verses I quoted were clear enough and don't need any interpretations? Those who belong to Christ crucifies the flesh with its lusts and affections? What other interpretations are there other than that we ought to crucify the flesh? And if the flesh is crucified, how can there still be lusts that we can indulge in?
My personal take on this is there is nothing wrong with saying that or thinking she's cute or thats a lovely dress. That is not lust in my opinion. Rather thinking (or saying) "lovely dress I'd love to rip that of her" is lust. My wife and I have often when in public commented to each other on others clothing or looks. For others this may be a problem and they need to stay away from those thoughts.Suppose somebody lived their lives having never known a woman (sexually) and then they looked upon some girl one day and thought "Wow she has a nice butt". How exactly does that work?
I'm sure there are such things as 'healthy' sexuality. But here's a question. It says in the Bible that if you look upon another woman you have already committed adultery. But with whom have I committed it against? I'm not married, nor do I ever intend to do such a pointless thing as there are more pressing issues at hand. How exactly does that apply to unmarried men? Suppose somebody lived their lives having never known a woman (sexually) and then they looked upon some girl one day and thought "Wow she has a nice butt". How exactly does that work?
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