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Is trying to force or seeking for a wife on my own means i am doing my own will and against Gods will?
As long as you are seeking a wife consensually, you are in God's will. The bible tells us that we have a "right" to a wife (1Co 9:5), and that if we have strong desires for a wife, we should "seek one" (1Co 7:9 ).Is trying to force or seeking for a wife on my own means i am doing my own will and against Gods will?
Is trying to force or seeking for a wife on my own means i am doing my own will and against Gods will?
If I could, I would give your answer above 5 gold stars.Nothing wrong with asking God for your wife. If it is God's will he will send you your wife in His timing. His timing however is not always our timing as he knows what is best for us.
God bless.
Maybe you should accept a "no" from godI know its not bad to ask for a wife , but i mean is it good to look for a wife? Somestimes i just feel hopepless i am already 30 years old never had a girlfriend. I asked many times to meet a girl from God. I dont go out much so not much of a chance to meet anyone, even in Catholic church nobody talk to each other, so the chances even lower.
I think that constant thinking that i need to find someone is making me not focus on more important things in life like faith or my future.
Actually...I think that constant thinking that i need to find someone is making me not focus on more important things in life like faith or my future.
What kind of woman are you seeking? If you're not after someone, who loves the Lord our God, with all her heart, all her mind, and all her soul, then you can try on your own means. However, only God can reveal the godly woman you desire. He already knows her. So its up to you if you want His help, to find her, or find someone else on your own.
If you want God's help, first draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you. Spend time reading and studying the Bible, thats the best way to grow your relationship with God, and to have a better shot to let him guide you.
With the current pandemic and churches closed, it may seem like a lost chance to meet someone right now. But look at it this way, you have more time to spend with building your relationship with God, and being better prepared when your church opens up again.
When i look online on my own i feel only lust and look to the looks, but in my heart maybe i created this perfect girl i dream to meet i knew once such girl but never had a chance to talk to ,but i feel some how i wish God send me such wife and from my spirit i feel good when i think about this girl. It feel God is telling me its possible to meet this girl , but when i start to think that i will close all options if i dont look online and than i dont know where i can meet this girl i wish to meet.
Patience is key here, because at the same time that you are looking for a wife, God is in the middle of preparing a wife for you.
Smart Christian men know this, and so they in turn begin to prepare themselves to become good Christian husbands, who can both tenderly love and care for a good wife.
When i look online on my own i feel only lust and look to the looks, but in my heart maybe i created this perfect girl i dream to meet i knew once such girl but never had a chance to talk to ,but i feel some how i wish God send me such wife and from my spirit i feel good when i think about this girl. It feel God is telling me its possible to meet this girl , but when i start to think that i will close all options if i dont look online and than i dont know where i can meet this girl i wish to meet.
Not unless God previously gave you clear instructions that this contradicts.
Perhaps you need to try something different if that is unproductive? Using those sites isn't sinful in and of itself.I had this feeling i dont know how to say that it was telling me to stop either using those sites or just maybe trust in him and just stop forcing online looking. But fear of not finding and adiction to this pages i couldn't gave up looking.