So would a babys spirit maintain the wisdom and maturity of a baby for all eternity? Is heaven dotted with crying, screaming babies who never grow up?
Who says that soul simply does not get plugged into a different body? This life is about choice. if we die before we make that choice then what is the purpose of life?
As I said before even if w do not get plugged in we do continue to grow and mature. either way assigning a specific age to an infinite creature is kinda pointless
So then you wouldnt be able to watch your children grow and develop because they will have died long before you become aware of your existence in heaven?
Again time is relative when you are not living an existence that is bound to it. There is nothing that says you can "watch your children grow up." It's just they might be there with you view their lives.
Youre not answering my questions. Wouldnt you feel anxiety at seeing her eternal torture and suffering in hell or would you be indifferent to that?
i am answering your question, perhaps you do not understand the answer given.
Would you really be able to enjoy yourself while watching someone you loved screaming in agony from being burned alive for all eternity?
Hell is much much worst than being burned alive. And yes.
We are told that there will be a separation between the wheat, and the weeds, the Sheep and the Goats. The weeds look like wheat the grow together and take from the same soil, but in the end the weed does not produce fruit, or rather the weed is not wheat. If you are wheat then your true "family" is with other wheat. Like wise if you are a sheep who has lived with goats all of his life, it does not make you any less of a sheep.
When you were a small child you had a very specific relationship with your mother. You needed Her to live. the level of your bond placed you by her side and kept you completely dependent on her. Are you still completely dependent on your mother, as if you were 3? I assume as you have matured you still love your mother but the nature of your relationship changed. you do not still need her in the same way that you did for survival. you are able to venture past the boundaries you had when you were three.
In the same way when we die we will all be transformed. Right now I believe we are only working with a fraction of our intend ended capacity for thought, intellect, and love. once we mature our relationship we had with one another will prove to be just a shadow of the ability and capacity that we now have. Yes you will still love your mother, not for what she was but who she is. Your relationship will change whether you want it to or not. Even if you cling to the memories of who your mother was and the nature of what your relationship was. It still has changed and is not what it was when you were 3.
Likewise in Heaven after we have all been "enlightened" to the nature of God all of our past lives and memories will only be a small stepping stone in the scope of who will become and what we will be doing for the rest of eternity.
I am sure we will feel sorrow for those who do not choose to be apart of eternity with God, but at the same time will understand and respect their decisions.