Trying not to read too much into this, but if we are headed in the direction of predestination and its implications (probably another thread completely) then we should do so with scriptures like this in mind: 2 Peter 3:9 Romans 2:11
Okay, with 2 Peter 3:9 we have to consider the
audience of the letter which is revealed in
2 Peter 1:1
2 Peter 1:1 Simeon Peter, a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ,
To those who have obtained a faith of equal standing with ours by the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ:
and next we will go over 2 Peter 3:9
2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward
you, not wishing that any should perish, but that
all should reach repentance.
In this context and considering the audience, the "all" is referring to "those who have obtained a faith...by the righteousness of our God", in other words, by implication, ALL of the elect in Christ.
Romans 2:11 is an easy one to interpret, but for a bit more depth, let's read Calvin's interpretation, which is spot on:
"11.There is no respect of persons, etc. He has hitherto generally arraigned all mortals as guilty; but now he begins to bring home his accusation to the Jews and to the Gentiles separately: and at the same time he teaches us, that it is no objection that there is a difference between them, but that they are both without any distinction exposed to eternal death. The Gentiles pretended ignorance as their defense; the Jews gloried in the honor of having the law: from the former he takes away their subterfuge, and he deprives the latter of their false and empty boasting.
There is then a division of the whole human race into two classes; for God had separated the Jews from all the rest, but the condition of all the Gentiles was the same. He now teaches us, that this difference is no reason why both should not be involved in the same guilt. But the wordperson is taken in Scripture for all outward things, which are wont to be regarded as possessing any value or esteem. When therefore thou readest, that God is no respecter of persons, understand that what he regards is purity of heart or inward integrity; and that he hath no respect for those things which are wont to be highly valued by men, such as kindred, country, dignity, wealth, and similar things; so that respect of persons is to be here taken for the distinction or the difference there is between one nation and another. (68) But if any hence objects and says, “That then there is no such thing as the gratuitous election of God;” it may be answered, That there is a twofold acceptation of men before God; the first, when he chooses and calls us from nothing through gratuitous goodness, as there is nothing in our nature which can be approved by him; the second, when after having regenerated us, he confers on us his gifts, and shows favor to the image of his Son which he recognizes in us." John Calvin, Expositions of Romans
Proving his exposition correct is very easy, read the context surrounding Romans 2:11, such as; v."9 There will be tribulation and distress for every human being who does evil, the Jew first and also the Greek, 10 but glory and honor and peace for everyone who does good, the Jew first and also the Greek." The context for impartiality is tribulation and distress (not salvation) and the context of "Jew" and "Greek" tells us that the impartiality of Romans 2:11 is concerned with races of men.
Otherwise we are headed straight for the doctrine of universalism,
Romans Chapter 9 alone destroys any notion of universalism.
or to the doctrine that God created and therefor endorses evil and disobedience.
So you deny Isaiah 45:7? Does 1 Samuel 16:14 mean anything? Who created Lucifer? See your strawman just raises more questions than answers and it would require great lengths of time and ink to explain the errors of your thinking on these matters.
Free will clears these serious complications with predestination right up.
At least we both believe in free will and predestination...yeah you read that right.
Foreknowing does not equate to forechoosing.
Foreknowing in the Bible, means foreLOVEing. But in case you will not accept that meaning, here are a couple of plain proof from Scripture concerning "forechoosing":
Ephesians 1:4 even as
he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love
Revelation 13:8 and all who dwell on earth will worship it, everyone whose
name has not been
written before the foundation of the world in the book of life of the Lamb who was slain.