So I found something incredibly bizarre. I went back to the profile of the girl I went on a date with yesterday. And she changed her age on her profile. She used to put her age down as 22 (which I strongly believe is her actual age). Now she has changed it to 25 (later on in her profile she writes "the age I put down may or may not be my actual age" so I guess I wouldn't classify it as an outright lie). She also changed the age in the "What I'm Looking For" section to "guys ages 25 -40" (it used to be something like 23-35, but I don't remember the exact ages). I'm 24.
So this actually hurts a bit. As I said, it wasn't a great date. It was probably below average as far as dates go and I don't think either of us had any desire for a second date. But my assumption, after seeing that she changed her profile age one day after our date, is that she didn't find me mature enough or successful enough as to be someone she'd even consider. Therefore she's now looking exclusively for guys who are older than me. I find it the height of irony that she changed her age on OkCupid to look more mature, yet the act of pretending you are a different age from what you claim is, I think, quite childish.
Maybe their is more to this than meets the eye. But at first glance, this is frusterating to me. I do, admittedly, have many faults, but rarely can one say that immaturity is one of them. The other option is that I have achieved very little (I don't have a job in my field yet, nor do I own property) and she's looking for someone who is a bit more established.
While I won't stay angry about this for long, at the moment I'm legitimately peeved.
Any thoughts on this?