MacFall
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- Nov 24, 2007
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What did happen to you?
Getting called a creep, told "please don't touch me", stuff like that. One girl even said "ew" and walked quickly away.
The one that really sticks out in my mind, though, is the last time I ever tried initiating physical contact with a girl. It was with a close friend in whom I had begun to take a romantic interest. We were on a long car ride, in the back seat together, and after a while I reached out to hold her hand. She didn't resist or pull back, but she just sort of froze up and stared straight ahead until I stopped touching her hand. Then she wouldn't talk to me any more after that.
One of the last times we spoke, a few weeks afterwards, I asked her about it and she denied even remembering it. That's what hurt most of all - that she found my touch so repugnant that she wouldn't even call it to mind.
Since then I've never touched a lady, even in the most brotherly, platonic way, without being invited. And not counting hugs from relatives and old ladies, I've only been invited twice in the past six years - once when a lady friend gave me a hug after I gave her my old car, and twice if you count the time that a young lady was walking alone with me through the woods at night and she got scared of an animal noise and grabbed my arm.
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