Well, I don't believe in sin, obviously, so I can't go with that. I think that the teachings of Jesus are worth listening to, simply because I believe in treating other people with respect. The emotional magic mumbo-jumbo that goes along with it, I don't care about. It means nothing to me.
I just want people not to treat each other like crap, that's all.
All they have to do is look at their holy books and think "Wait a minute! Alot of this stuff... doesn't really fit in with modern society. Maybe we shouldn't take it all so literally.", it's really not that difficult.
We don't need 10 commandments to tell us not to be kill each other or take each other's stuff. If anybody does have to rely on an ancient book for their morals, they're an idiot.
Common sense is what I preach. Never done me any harm.
And I completely respect your decision to live your life as you see fit.
The trouble is, I maintain that we human beings are not able, on our own volition, to follow what I maintain are the God-given rules of decent living that are imprinted in our psyche.
So the 6th commandment (or 5th if you are Catholic) says "You shall not murder." I maintain that "murder" is the illegal AND immoral killing of another human being (adding "immoral" allows us to cover the actions of despots and countries who simply pass laws allowing them to kill whoever they want; Libya comes to mind right now).
So I maintain that Islam goes farther than God ever intended in Bible with regard to the 6th Commandment- it allows, or at least is interpreted by many Muslims to mean, that it is O.K. to kill someone because, for example, they won't convert to Islam, or decide to follow another faith.
Hitler and his henchmen were able to somehow compromise their God-given sense of right and wrong, and justify the slaughter of millions of people. Same thing- in their mind, I am sure that they believed that what they were doing was not murder.
So I maintain that us human beings need to have absolute standards, and an absolute judge to convict us, when it comes to deciding what is right or wrong. Call it the fear of God- but when you're a Christian, there is this additional incentive- we call it the Holy Spirit- God within you- tugging at you both when it comes to the little sins of life, and also the big ones, to do the right thing.
And I maintain that God within you is a powerful force that encourages behaviour that is pleasing to God; you not only know better that something is wrong- you also know when you've done something pleasing to God; a good deed, whatever! And the satisfaction that comes from doing those good deeds encourages you to do more and more.
But in Jesus- God who came to earth- we have one more huge benefit:
forgiveness of sins IF we repent of our sins, and promise to follow forever more the example of Christ- using His sinless life here on earth as an example of how we are to live our own life.
Try it, you just might like it. At the very least, I guarantee it will give you great peace, serenity, and direction in life.
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