That's not very helpful. I disempower myself by coming to this website, you are correct about that. The apostles taught us to avoid debates and to be of one mind, and one judgment. You acknowledge that this discussion causes me distress, and you actually feed it more with your reply. If you want to side with an atheist who believes that we evolved from apes, rather than to edify a brother in distress, then that's your choice. If I came to your church is that how you would treat me? You are right that I must make my own choices though, and I must choose to avoid people because I don't think its good for me to be around Christians who debate everything instead of following Paul's command. If