Everyone reacts to others according to,their
appearance. For anyone to claim that they dont, and that
to do so is racist and prejudiced is such
a misrepresentation as to be plain ridiculous.
Back when I was in the military, I figured out a thought-rule to the question of how to compliment a woman: Compliment her choices, not her attributes.
The same goes for reacting to any aspect of anyone's appearance: Evaluate their deliberate choices, not their natural attributes. I'm not going to evaluate someone by the color of his skin he was born with, but I will evaluate someone based on how he chooses to dress.
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