Senkaku
Shatter the Illusion
- Aug 18, 2016
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yes, guilt tripping is the easiest way to determine when someone is controlling. You need to confront him on these things as soon as possible. Tell him how you feel. ask him those questions in a neutral tone. "How come i need my location on at all times but you don't?" "why is it wrong for me to go out with friends, but not you?" stuff like that.
Also, you must take responsibility for your actions. the only control he has over you are the areas you've given him to control, so stop giving him that power, control freaks will just walk all over that and take more and more ground when that happens. The guilt tripping will come, just to warn you, thats how they thrive. I'm not telling you to be disrespectful to him or hostile or anything, just saying to confront the situation with openness and honesty, it's not fair to you to have all of this pressure on you, he needs to know how this is making you feel.
Also, you must take responsibility for your actions. the only control he has over you are the areas you've given him to control, so stop giving him that power, control freaks will just walk all over that and take more and more ground when that happens. The guilt tripping will come, just to warn you, thats how they thrive. I'm not telling you to be disrespectful to him or hostile or anything, just saying to confront the situation with openness and honesty, it's not fair to you to have all of this pressure on you, he needs to know how this is making you feel.
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