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thank you. i'm curious of how tonight goesYou sound like very generous woman. Don't feel guilty about being honest with him. Hope it works out.
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thank you. i'm curious of how tonight goesYou sound like very generous woman. Don't feel guilty about being honest with him. Hope it works out.
After all you've posted, I'm curious too and pray things will be sorted out soon.thank you. i'm curious of how tonight goes
Yes, but his insecurities are draining me. to the point that I can't be myself because i dont want to outshine him, or make him feel like he isn't a man. I know he tells me that he loves me, but i just feel like it's getting ridiculous.
1 Peter chapter 3 verse 7or make him feel like he isn't a man.
This part is particularly worrying. It sounds like classic gaslighting: he's making unreasonable demands, and making you feel like you're the crazy one. As for what he says about how guys are -- that's complete bunk. Sure, there are guys like that out there, but it's certainly not all of them, and what does that have to do with going out with other women? I wouldn't dream of treating my wife the way you're being treated.I have told him. But to be honest, i feel like i'm crazy sometimes. So i feel like when I say something, it sounds like I'm overacting and I have no clue about how marriage works
I disagree with the remark that it's different cause you're a girl. You should each follow the same rules.Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight
Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight
My wife says that thinkers are doers. Whatever he is trying to accuse you of is most likely what he is guilty of doing. Perhaps this causes stress for him and he wants to push that stress off on you rather than to deal with it himself.Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight
Your husband is extremely controlling. It sounds very likely that he is doing 'secret' things on these trips.Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight
To be real honest I think you need to research the profile of domestic abusers. They often want to control, and isolate, their spouses. Putting them on a guilt trip for no good reason is also very common. The real problem is that such behaviors can escalate. I pray you will be given wisdom on how to deal with this so things don't get worse, and even turn around.,Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight
P.S. I also agree with those above, though, who feel he is probably having some kind of an affair and/or up to no good in other ways. His attempts to make you live in anxiety may be due to his need to get you off his back about any potential revelations. Mho.To be real honest I think you need to research the profile of domestic abusers. They often want to control, and isolate, their spouses. Putting them on a guilt trip for no good reason is also very common. The real problem is that such behaviors can escalate. I pray you will be given wisdom on how to deal with this so things don't get worse, and even turn around.,
Hi, as I'm writing this, my husband is on the plane coming from mexico with his best friends and i'm picking him up in a couple hours. He left 5 days ago, spending 4 nights there. So here's the problem, somehow, he is able to make me feel guilty for going out with my girlfriends one of the nights he's gone. I have my "location" on at all times. He doesn't have his on. And I am not allowed to go on girls trips, this is his 3rd time to Mexico in the last 10 months with his buddies. Granted, we've been going through some marital troubles.
everytime i say it's not fair that i'm not allowed, he said it's different cause I'm a girl.
So here I am typing cause I have extreme anxiety, like i did something totally wrong, but i didn't. I need some advice. I'll update you guys when I see him tonight