Avniel
Doing my part each day by being the best me
- Jun 11, 2010
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I'm talking about specific sin.....not *all* sin. To make a distinction between proper....(even holy) desire.....and sexual desire that's lustful makes it to where marital sex can be discussed and understood in proper context. Instead of the "oh.....sex....NOOooooo....don't do THAT!".......it can be discussed within the parameters that God's given us (and more than just "wait until you're married"). That's not enough information (IMO). It's being able to distinguish between what's good.....and what taints the marriage.
Often, when this topic comes up......there's an underlying presumption that it's being believed that a man's desire for his wife is "bad". It's not......unless directed in a way that involves sin.
Kind of like......."be angry......but do not sin". Anger isn't sinful......it's often HOW we express it that makes it that way. But.....because most people perceive anger as a "negative"......most aren't championing for it to be protected from being called "wrong".
I agree it is about knowing what is good and what taints marriage. However if someone is selfish and demands sex and does other things to damage their marriage they are acting outside of God's will. Those actions outside of God's will for sex are sinful however it is not lust, that is what we are trying to tell you.
I don't think anyone is making that presumption that it is wrong for a man to desire his wife. I think what people are saying is when the directed involves sin does not make it lust.
No one is disagreeing with you that it's wrong we are trying to tell you that it is not lust. You have repeated several time that it is lust. When asked for scripture you have given us quotes from the Pope, who also believes it's sinful to use contraception.
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