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I am so glad that you responded! I have read your posts and knew that people like you see this for what it is. As long as there are true conservatives on this site I think I can stay... as long as they don't kick me off. :)
I have alot of issues with how women play the gender game & manipulate men with it. It's the age old curse from Genesis 3.

In some things women seem to have to rebuke - cuz if men do it they cry foul. It's a crock, but they do it anyways & they know it often works cuz men back down.
 
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by the way, LOTS of things are "beautiful" that involve the female body - the issue becomes the inappropriate places it's displayed.

Sex is beautiful - but only btwn married couples in privacy.

Breastfeeding is a beautiful moment - but it's a private one that some of us don't appreciate being thrown in our faces and then we have to watch age appropriateness with it too.
 
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by the way, LOTS of things are "beautiful" that involve the female body - the issue becomes the inappropriate places it's displayed.

Sex is beautiful - but only btwn married couples in privacy.

Breastfeeding is a beautiful moment - but it's a private one that some of us don't appreciate being thrown in our faces and then we have to watch age appropriateness with it too.
Quoted for absolute truth!
 
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You've gotta really do a lot to get kicked out of here. Look at the crap I pull. I'm still here. LOL
^_^

I think the mods all understand your "condition" zeckypoo - they probly might do something tho if you used scans of your Maxim pinups for an avatar
=0)
 
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by the way, LOTS of things are "beautiful" that involve the female body - the issue becomes the inappropriate places it's displayed.

Sex is beautiful - but only btwn married couples in privacy.

Breastfeeding is a beautiful moment - but it's a private one that some of us don't appreciate being thrown in our faces and then we have to watch age appropriateness with it too.

The other thing that has to be mentioned is that pictures & avatars such as the one in question can be a stumbling block for weaker Christians and especially for the porn-addicted Christian. Christians often forget Matthew 18:6-7(6) but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, and to be drowned in the depth of the sea. (7) 'Woe to the world because of its stumbling blocks! For it is inevitable that stumbling blocks come; but woe to the man through whom the stumbling block comes!'-NASB
 
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^_^

I think the mods all understand your "condition" zeckypoo - they probly might do something tho if you used scans of your Maxim pinups for an avatar
=0)

Silly Nadiine! You used the word 'condition' in the singular. LOL Everybody knows there's more than just one thing wrong with me. LOL And btw, has Maxim contacted you yet? I sent them your current avatar. You should be hearing from them shortly. LOL
 
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Silly Nadiine! You used the word 'condition' in the singular. LOL Everybody knows there's more than just one thing wrong with me. LOL And btw, has Maxim contacted you yet? I sent them your current avatar. You should be hearing from them shortly. LOL
hehe. Oh......... that's me on the LEFT side.....

wait......

right side.............

^_^^_^
 
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Silly Nadiine! You used the word 'condition' in the singular. LOL Everybody knows there's more than just one thing wrong with me. LOL And btw, has Maxim contacted you yet? I sent them your current avatar. You should be hearing from them shortly. LOL

I thought she was more an FHM girl :D
 
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You've gotta really do a lot to get kicked out of here. Look at the crap I pull. I'm still here. LOL

I don't know. I got banned for 2 weeks, and I told the mods straight up I'm not sorry for at least 6 of the 7 "offending" posts, and would do it again.
 
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I have alot of issues with how women play the gender game & manipulate men with it. It's the age old curse from Genesis 3.

In some things women seem to have to rebuke - cuz if men do it they cry foul. It's a crock, but they do it anyways & they know it often works cuz men back down.

Amen Nadiine!

I certainly have a heart for men because God gave it to me I see the dump the world puts on them also, like you do. But it's all stirred up by the demonic - they don't like the man's authority either let alone un-redeemed woman who love their demons and their flesh.

Your right, it goes back to the curse in Gen-3.

Somebody still owes me a reply-pm! ;) ~just razz'n ya~
 
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I don't know. I got banned for 2 weeks, and I told the mods straight up I'm not sorry for at least 6 of the 7 "offending" posts, and would do it again.

Why did you come back - to get kicked in the head again. ;)

It's Spiritual though. :preach: Sometimes we deserve it and sometimes it's for our Schooling.
 
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I don't know. I got banned for 2 weeks, and I told the mods straight up I'm not sorry for at least 6 of the 7 "offending" posts, and would do it again.

Well, Wade, the first thing you should do is edit your post. You are talking about mod actions in public. That is a violation of the rules. Do you want to get into even more trouble? Now, engaging in the kind of behavior you describe in your post is a sure-fire way to get kicked out of here. What you have to remember, and what everybody else who posts on an internet forum has to remember is, you don't have free speech here. You don't get to say or do whatever you want. There are rules here that govern speech and behavior. You're essentially a guest in LeeD's home. If you violate his rules and tell your host that you're not sorry for breaking the rules and that you'll do it again, why should Lee allow you back into his house? You're just begging to get kicked out.
 
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dont have too much to add, just on a personal note...my husband is a very strong christian, one of the reasons i married him=) he is also a porn addict. he knows that what he does is wrong, but it is an addiction for him. he has had a problem since age 12. he has been driven to depression because of it and it is ruining our marriage. we are doing everything we can to fix the problem, but it is very difficult. it is a horrible disease that has infected our society. i can not see how anyone can say that it does not hurt anyone.:confused: God please help rescue us and our children from those who seek to destroy the moral fiber of america.:prayer:
 
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I thought she was more an FHM girl :D

Now you've done it Chris. Now that Nadiine knows you can distinguish between a Maxim and an FHM girl, you've given her a whole new arsenal of jokes. LOL
 
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dont have too much to add, just on a personal note...my husband is a very strong christian, one of the reasons i married him=) he is also a porn addict. he knows that what he does is wrong, but it is an addiction for him. he has had a problem since age 12. he has been driven to depression because of it and it is ruining our marriage. we are doing everything we can to fix the problem, but it is very difficult. it is a horrible disease that has infected our society. i can not see how anyone can say that it does not hurt anyone.:confused: God please help rescue us and our children from those who seek to destroy the moral fiber of america.:prayer:

Dont know if you've heard of xxxchurch.com they are a christian ministry that works with christian men and women who are dealing with a porn addiction.
 
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dont have too much to add, just on a personal note...my husband is a very strong christian, one of the reasons i married him=) he is also a porn addict. he knows that what he does is wrong, but it is an addiction for him. he has had a problem since age 12. he has been driven to depression because of it and it is ruining our marriage. we are doing everything we can to fix the problem, but it is very difficult. it is a horrible disease that has infected our society. i can not see how anyone can say that it does not hurt anyone.:confused: God please help rescue us and our children from those who seek to destroy the moral fiber of america.:prayer:

HS, one resource that is really great in treating and overcoming this addiction is an audio CD from:www.livingwaters.com called Slaying the Dragon. It costs about $10 and is worth every penny at three times the cost. I hope it can help your husband and your entire family.
 
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