Over being on my own. I've brought this up to the forums before but I need to vent.
I'm 29 and I've never been in any relationship. Never heard a "yes" when I asked a girl on a date. Of all the girls I liked, they were either taken or didn't have any interest in me. Never held hands, shared a kiss, etc.
I have a disability and emplyment is tricky for me. I have a plan for my future but I've got major surgeries coming so my life is on hold again. So I feel very disadvantaged.
I get very envious, angry, and depressed sometimes seeing young couples holding hands, hearing friends talking about their girlfriends, seeing TV shows where everyone has someone or seeing romantic scenes on TV. I hate it because its always in my face and I feel like I'm getting mocked.
I have prayed for a long time and still pray, but I'm losing hope. I don't understand why God hasn't let me be with someone and it makes me very angry. No one ever helps me with this. No one seems to care at all that I'm lonely and can't find anyone. I don't think anyone cares at all and I don't have anyone I can even relate to. I'm nearing my 30's and I don't even know what it's like to have a significant other. It's completely foreign to me.
I know a lot of people's experiences have just been breakups and disappointment. But that honestly doesn't make me feel less alone, because those people can still say they had a relationship. It makes me feel valueless and undesired.
I hate dealing with this rejection and there's no sign that it'll end. I'm very confused about why this has been and what God's plan is.
I know to keep my focus on God, but it's still my desire to spend my life with someone right for me. But I'm scared that I'll be 60 one day and still be where I am now. I don't want that to happen to me. I think it's a terrible thing to be spend so much time alone and single when I desire companionship. If you're happy being single then my hat's off to you, but this isn't what I want.
Can anyone even relate to this?
I'm 29 and I've never been in any relationship. Never heard a "yes" when I asked a girl on a date. Of all the girls I liked, they were either taken or didn't have any interest in me. Never held hands, shared a kiss, etc.
I have a disability and emplyment is tricky for me. I have a plan for my future but I've got major surgeries coming so my life is on hold again. So I feel very disadvantaged.
I get very envious, angry, and depressed sometimes seeing young couples holding hands, hearing friends talking about their girlfriends, seeing TV shows where everyone has someone or seeing romantic scenes on TV. I hate it because its always in my face and I feel like I'm getting mocked.
I have prayed for a long time and still pray, but I'm losing hope. I don't understand why God hasn't let me be with someone and it makes me very angry. No one ever helps me with this. No one seems to care at all that I'm lonely and can't find anyone. I don't think anyone cares at all and I don't have anyone I can even relate to. I'm nearing my 30's and I don't even know what it's like to have a significant other. It's completely foreign to me.
I know a lot of people's experiences have just been breakups and disappointment. But that honestly doesn't make me feel less alone, because those people can still say they had a relationship. It makes me feel valueless and undesired.
I hate dealing with this rejection and there's no sign that it'll end. I'm very confused about why this has been and what God's plan is.
I know to keep my focus on God, but it's still my desire to spend my life with someone right for me. But I'm scared that I'll be 60 one day and still be where I am now. I don't want that to happen to me. I think it's a terrible thing to be spend so much time alone and single when I desire companionship. If you're happy being single then my hat's off to you, but this isn't what I want.
Can anyone even relate to this?