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I want to get closer...

Discussion in 'General Struggles' started by SimplyUnique, Oct 5, 2005.

  1. SimplyUnique

    SimplyUnique Simply Unique, Simply Me

    Ok...I want to get closer to this one guy. And aside from liking him and thinking he's totally awesome no matter what, I also feel he may help me in my walk with Christ also!

    He's turning 16 this month, we go to the same youth group and school. I would have to wait till next year to date him though because i'm still in middle school and he's in 10th. My mom knows I like him and she's aproved of him etc...blah blah.

    Now...I just want to know how I can be his friend...I mean he and I are kinda friends already, but I mean like close friends where we can talk more and such.

    He is Catholic and so religious! He's really respectable and is just like no other guy i've met!

    So please if you have any suggestions...I don't even know if this is the right thread...but i'm kinda struggling with choices and such.
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  2. silentpoet

    silentpoet Contributor

    Talk about the things that are important to you.
  3. Anti Existance

    Anti Existance Guest

    Ok wel since your from Belgium i'll just talk in that language.

    Het beste wat je [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] doen is die gozer gewoon direkt uit vragen , wat is nou het geval het is een win win situatie als je direkt zegt waar het op staat. Als hij nee zegt kun je verder met je leven, en als hij ja zegt heb je een date. Pas wel op voor wolven in schaapskleren, men kan achter de kast veel slechte eigenschappen hebben waar je pas later achterkomt, laat hem geen dingen bij je doen die je niet leuk vind of niet accepteerd, maar uit wel je liefde voor hem. Jongens houden er niet van om eromheen te draaien, en subtiele dingen daar begrijpen ze niks van, dus gewoon recht voor z'n raap en geen verlegen gedoe, do or die aanpak om het maar zo te zeggen.

    Verders zou ik je niet te druk maken, je bent constant bezig in je hoofd met hoe je hem uit moet vragen ,fantaseren en zo maar dat zet geen zoden aan de dijk , nogmaals loop gewoon naar hem toe zeg dat je hem leuk vind, dat ie niet meteen erover hoeft te beslissen maar dat je het best leuk zou vinden om een keer met hem uit te gaan.

    Misschien is het antwoord in het begin negatief, maar als je niks laat horen daarna komt ie misschien toch op de proppen om je uit te vragen ,zo niet dan ga je verder met je leven.(na 3 a 5) weken maximaal, meer had ik er niet in geinvesteerd als ik jou was.
  4. thepianist

    thepianist Well-Known Member

    :scratch: Well, you can try to talk to each other about your common interests - that's always a pretty good thing. Also, since he is very religious, try inviting him to come with you to church once. Who knows - maybe he'll go with you, at least one time. God bless you, dear. :hug: :prayer:
  5. dave007

    dave007 Member

    Just hang around him for a while :) He'll notice your interested...
  6. SimplyUnique

    SimplyUnique Simply Unique, Simply Me


    English please! I'm not dutch, i'm american
  7. SimplyUnique

    SimplyUnique Simply Unique, Simply Me

    Well I mean how can I talk to him more?
  8. Anti Existance

    Anti Existance Guest

    what is the belgium flag then for? Oh well
  9. SimplyUnique

    SimplyUnique Simply Unique, Simply Me

    its there because i live in belgium