I absolutly love that book. It's the best I've ever seen on the subject and one I really wish had been around when I was a teenager. Although I don't think that review really explains the book in the best possible light. Josh Harris has more written a book about how not to date, and a more God centred way of doing relationships. He doesn't mean not date - rather not date for the sake of company or shallow, self centered relationships that arn't going anywhere.He's also big on keeping the pysical for marriage. In otherwords not date along the lines that we're encouraged to by the norms of western society with their results.
It's pretty hardcore on morality though and I think a lot of people don't necessarily feel comfortable with that and want a more 'relaxed' approach, lol. But I agree with almost 100% of what he says. He's very moral, very genuine and really maintains christian standards on the whole subject. I don't find him legalistic at all. Just tough on things that the church often glosses over or doesn't get around to addressing.
I picked it up thinking yeah, yeah, I already know all this, yada, yada but it really impressed me. It's a great book. I'd recommend it to anyone.
