The road to hell was paved with good intentions.
Hm. Perhaps.
NO, you've been hostile towards me on several occasions. I'm feeling depressed and I can't find it in my heart right now to forgive anyone. I can't sleep. It's 2 am my time. I just had a drink for the first time in years.
I cannot see how I have been unduely harsh to you Z. If I have, show me where and I can either apologize if I have done wrong or elaborate on why I said what I did to rectify any misinterpretation. You're a brother in the faith and you say you are my friend. Well, friends do give advice even when such advice is not wanted. My friends help me on my journey in life and I intend to help them. How can I do less for those who are near my heart? I have in fact tried to do this with you, but you just insult me and the others here.
Maybe you just should have asked forgiveness? It could be you're feeling guilty Zongerfield.
Now I should add, given that last line:
If being on here drives you to drink and you have a drinking problem: GET OFF-LINE NOW! This forum is actually kinder than several I've been to and I can practically guarantee you'll be faced with far harsher behavior in many to most other boards. So: If you have a drinking problem: GET OFF-LINE! I could moderate myself (I will never agree with you but I could stop responding and ignore you) but there are many people here and you'll always regardless of what I do meet people who will call you on your behavior. So, with that in mind my one and only suggestion is to GET OFF-LINE IF YOU HAVE A DRINKING PROBLEM!
Alright buddy? Don't want anyone back into drinking here. Alright? Better to not be here at all in that case. I don't mind a drink myself (I stop at one though) but alcoholism is not something I would like to see. Whatever drinks you have are drunk because you choose to though Z. Don't push that blame on others.
A. Bears witness and accepts Jesus as his/her Lord and Savior.
Hm. I would probably answer that a little differently: What about the fruits of the spirit? What about loving one's enemies?
I like Keith Green's somewhat simple definition:
Someone who loves the Lord with all his heart and who loves everybody else as much as he loves himself. I think Keith also said "Someone who's bananas for Jesus". I know plenty of people who are very loudly proclaiming their faith as 'bearing witness' but don't show the fruits of the spirit, much as described in Matthew 25.
A. No. You served your country. Your a lib, but not a wastrel.
Thank you. Sort of. I guess.
I was right. Revisionist's history, Gini coefficient, antipathy for the wealthy and a overwrought sympathy for third world Asia. No shocker there.
You haven't checked a thing, have you? And you just conclude that from no basis whatsoever. Revisionist history? How would you even say that when you don't know what I have read Zongerfield?
I am keenly aware of how you've come to your conclusions.
Okay. Again, I
really don't believe you are. But hey, I'll bite: How have I come to that conclusion? Come on, tell me. Please.
I showed this thread to a friend and he made it very clear that I am being attacked, that I am being bullied, laughed at - which is maybe why I can't sleep. I don't know. I see darkness.
Perhaps it's guilt, Zongerfield. Maybe I've been too harsh, and if so I apologize. It has not been my intention to be overly harsh but to be a brother pointing out where a brother has stumbled and fallen Zongerfield. In would expect any Christian to listen to his or her fellow believers when criticism of behavior and stance are brought to bear. When people criticize me and I find it to be valid criticism I do my best to change. I trust this will continue, and I have an open invitation to please tell me what I do wrong if I do something wrong.
You know, it's OK to reject said criticism, if it's found flawed, but one should certainly listen. I try to do so myself and I expect no less from others.
And here's one problem I have with your posts. You keep on forgiving everyone for an animosity I don't see. Maybe I am being rude, or a bad person. If I am I don't see it. If and when someone points it out to me that I have failed or sinned I try to rectify that and apologize. However; Several posters here pointed to where you hurt their feelings and how you've done them wrong. Yet you have not apologized, you have not attempted any form of reconciliation Zongerfield. Or if you have I've missed it. In fact in response to the criticism you actually added insult to injury by adding your offending text to your signature to be there for every post from then on. In addition to what's in your posts. Again: I don't think your intentions were impure, but like you yourself said: The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Here's an example of you misinterpreting wildly. Take my encouraging you to seek someone who are skilled at communication and you then falsely ranting about being drugged down by a psychiatrist, and also adding atheism and socialism and homosexuality. Where did that come from? So at least as far as that post goes you've been deeply insulted by something that was neither intended nor said. I'm sorry about that misinterpretation and I hope it's clear now what I intended to say. But it was not at all an attack. It was intended as a friendly suggestion to save all who encounter you from hurt.
And by the way, it's not something I'm suggesting that I wouldn't do myself. I've had several courses on presentation techniques and communication in specific situations. So if you're wanting some help in presenting data to a crowd or presenting something or other in a non-religious setting I can actually teach you as I've taught others. But this kind of informal communication stuff... I'm not too good at it so I won't offer my own services there.