Hello all, I'm new here and found this site in search of advice on Christian relationships. I'm sorry if this is not the right thread to post a topic like this, but I honestly don't have anyone to talk about it with so I am asking all of you or those who may care to read this.
I'm 18 (I know, I'm "young", and this may seem insignificant) and currently in a relationship with a 20 year old guy who says he's a Christian. The problem I have is that I'm not feeling like he is not wanting to grow in his faith as I want to grow in mine. I've already had talks with him about lust, intentionally using God's name in vain, and how I don't want to be sexually intimate before marriage. He does agree with these things, but I feel that he only stops doing them because it pleases me, not because he wants to please God. I've asked if we could pray or read our Bibles together but he never seems willing to. Recently, I ended up questioning his faith and asking if he was really serious about God because his words and actions were not lining up. He got angry at me and said, and I quote, I'm "aggressively religious" and "taking religion too seriously". He tried to flip it on me and it made me feel like I was wrong for even bringing anything up.
I don't know if I was wrong for questioning him, but I prayed on it and the whole thing just sat heavily on my heart. After that, I just don't feel the same.
I've asked God if I should stay because I am the only person in his life who is a "positive energy" due to his bad home life and past, but I am kind of suffering because of it. I know the easy answer is to just break up, but no one has a perfect walk with God and I would like to be in union with him in that, or at least strengthen his hunger for Christ. I pray for him all the time but I know that only God can change people.
TLDR: Boyfriend is lukewarm. Doesn't seem to want to grow closer to God and it's bringing me down.
I'm 18 (I know, I'm "young", and this may seem insignificant) and currently in a relationship with a 20 year old guy who says he's a Christian. The problem I have is that I'm not feeling like he is not wanting to grow in his faith as I want to grow in mine. I've already had talks with him about lust, intentionally using God's name in vain, and how I don't want to be sexually intimate before marriage. He does agree with these things, but I feel that he only stops doing them because it pleases me, not because he wants to please God. I've asked if we could pray or read our Bibles together but he never seems willing to. Recently, I ended up questioning his faith and asking if he was really serious about God because his words and actions were not lining up. He got angry at me and said, and I quote, I'm "aggressively religious" and "taking religion too seriously". He tried to flip it on me and it made me feel like I was wrong for even bringing anything up.
I don't know if I was wrong for questioning him, but I prayed on it and the whole thing just sat heavily on my heart. After that, I just don't feel the same.
I've asked God if I should stay because I am the only person in his life who is a "positive energy" due to his bad home life and past, but I am kind of suffering because of it. I know the easy answer is to just break up, but no one has a perfect walk with God and I would like to be in union with him in that, or at least strengthen his hunger for Christ. I pray for him all the time but I know that only God can change people.
TLDR: Boyfriend is lukewarm. Doesn't seem to want to grow closer to God and it's bringing me down.