You are not justified or glorified unless you are in Christ. And God did predestine us to be conformed to the image of His Son, but being conformed to His image does not save you. It is evidence of salvation. Again, you don't like what it says so you come up with your own interpretation. God calls, God saves, God justifies, God glorifies. You don't do any of that.
Agree. The doctrinal 'isms' and 'ists' interest me none at all. "evidence of salvation" is another term that folks "come up with". The scriptural word for it is "fruit", and personally I see much deeper meaning in the word. One can say 'evidence' and give the impression that it is not really necessary. Granted, it can be used, but it is not the scriptural term.
A person who is 'born again' of the Holy Spirit, a person who has truly been reconciled through Jesus Christ, through the precious sinless blood that He shed, is a NEW CREATION!! They belong to Christ, are in Him. Scripture explains that the 'fruit' will show what kind of tree, vine, it is. A fountain does not send out both sweet water and bitter. This goes a whole lot deeper Brother than 'evidence'. A tree is known by its "fruits', not by the 'evidence'. One can place anything under a tree, bring a piece of fruit from somewhere else, and give 'evidence' that it came from something it did not. The proof is in the fruit, and where it came from, exactly as scripture says.
Lets get real here. There are folks like this in every church, whatever the name, doctrine, they may claim. These folks are not limited to 'calvinist' churches, 'free-will' churches, or 'traditional' churches, or 'restorationist' churches, or any other kind. The doctrine you hold to does not make you REAL. Who, what, one is attached to, will produce the 'fruit', not 'evidence'. Those who are truly IN Jesus Christ, are transformed, new creatures, and are indeed "predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son". No might, no maybe, to it. No 'well, I will go this far, but I can't surrender all'. These are simply not 'real', though they may possibly give 'evidence'. When we come to Jesus Christ, we die, and we are planted into Him.
The high-salary preachers don't preach this today, it affects the offering plate, and the attendance stats. But this is just how it is. And this is how it is, regardless of the doctrinal position one holds. 1st John explains this, ALL the epistles do. If one is in Jesus Christ, abiding in Him, the 'fruit' WILL produce. And we will get pruned, so that MORE fruit will be produced. 'Evidence' has nothing to do with it.