Hello all,
I hope some of you can give me some direction. I have prayed to God that he will speak to me through some of you, so please be open and let Him use you. I also ask whenever possible, give me scriptures that I can read to back up your advice. Thank you.
I have been struggling for the past 6 months or so, wondering if I should leave and seek a new church. I have only recently become strong in my faith. I was lost for many years, but about 3 years ago, I came back to the Lord and my life changed quite a bit. At the time that I was going through the change, I was seeking a church, and I was guided to this church by a friend of mine.
The Church is fairly new itself. It also started about 3 years ago, so it is a young ministry.
I am having some issues with the Pastor of the church as well as the leadership surrounding him. The Pastor is acting very hippocritical, preaching one message, and living another. He acts full of pride, and is concerned about how the world views the church, and makes a lot of his decisions based on the world. The church started with family members, so a lot of the congregation is related to the Pastor as well as many members of the church board.
To make a long story short, there are a lot of problems in this church. People are being misled, and the focus of the church is more businesslike than spiritual. The Praise and Worship is wonderful, but the actions outside the church, and the church works are very misled.
On top of this, I have felt like I am not really a good fit in this church. I get along with many of the congregation, but I feel like I am viewed on a lower level than most. I have tried to find a place in the ministries of the church, and it just feels like I am not really being accepted.
I have talked to many people about this, and I have stuck with the church. Overall, my faith is very strong, and I feel like I have been getting very close to God. I have been focusing on getting myself rooted in the Word, and just building my own solid and close relationship with God. I have been trying not to let all of this personal worldly stuff bother me, but I am human... It has been wearing on me a bit. I feel like if I leave, then nothing will ever change... Many people will be misled. Many very strong Christians have left the church already.
So I guess what I am asking is if I should stand my ground, suffer the persecution, and hopefully work as a light and an example for some of the others in the church. Or should I seek another church where I can truly be fed since I am a growing Christian myself? I just don't want to quit, but I am not sure if I am really in the position to affect change. If I stay in a church that is a mess, am I going to suffer in my salvation for staying?
Please let me know what God tells your heart when you read this. I need some guidance and some input to help me make a real decision. Sometimes I want to take the easy route, but I wonder if that is what God really wants me to do. The Bible says we will all suffer persecution... the world will hate us. And the Purpose Drive Life says that I will never find a perfect church.
Oh, and not that it really matters, but I am a white male, and the church is mostly made up by blacks. That doesn't seem to be an issue, but others have told me that I will never be fully accepted in that church because of that. To me that is so non-Christian it makes me sad, but I am just confused at the moment.
Thank you for your time, and God Bless You all.
I hope some of you can give me some direction. I have prayed to God that he will speak to me through some of you, so please be open and let Him use you. I also ask whenever possible, give me scriptures that I can read to back up your advice. Thank you.
I have been struggling for the past 6 months or so, wondering if I should leave and seek a new church. I have only recently become strong in my faith. I was lost for many years, but about 3 years ago, I came back to the Lord and my life changed quite a bit. At the time that I was going through the change, I was seeking a church, and I was guided to this church by a friend of mine.
The Church is fairly new itself. It also started about 3 years ago, so it is a young ministry.
I am having some issues with the Pastor of the church as well as the leadership surrounding him. The Pastor is acting very hippocritical, preaching one message, and living another. He acts full of pride, and is concerned about how the world views the church, and makes a lot of his decisions based on the world. The church started with family members, so a lot of the congregation is related to the Pastor as well as many members of the church board.
To make a long story short, there are a lot of problems in this church. People are being misled, and the focus of the church is more businesslike than spiritual. The Praise and Worship is wonderful, but the actions outside the church, and the church works are very misled.
On top of this, I have felt like I am not really a good fit in this church. I get along with many of the congregation, but I feel like I am viewed on a lower level than most. I have tried to find a place in the ministries of the church, and it just feels like I am not really being accepted.
I have talked to many people about this, and I have stuck with the church. Overall, my faith is very strong, and I feel like I have been getting very close to God. I have been focusing on getting myself rooted in the Word, and just building my own solid and close relationship with God. I have been trying not to let all of this personal worldly stuff bother me, but I am human... It has been wearing on me a bit. I feel like if I leave, then nothing will ever change... Many people will be misled. Many very strong Christians have left the church already.
So I guess what I am asking is if I should stand my ground, suffer the persecution, and hopefully work as a light and an example for some of the others in the church. Or should I seek another church where I can truly be fed since I am a growing Christian myself? I just don't want to quit, but I am not sure if I am really in the position to affect change. If I stay in a church that is a mess, am I going to suffer in my salvation for staying?
Please let me know what God tells your heart when you read this. I need some guidance and some input to help me make a real decision. Sometimes I want to take the easy route, but I wonder if that is what God really wants me to do. The Bible says we will all suffer persecution... the world will hate us. And the Purpose Drive Life says that I will never find a perfect church.
Oh, and not that it really matters, but I am a white male, and the church is mostly made up by blacks. That doesn't seem to be an issue, but others have told me that I will never be fully accepted in that church because of that. To me that is so non-Christian it makes me sad, but I am just confused at the moment.
Thank you for your time, and God Bless You all.