You will not weep for them, you will not try to help them, you will let nothing at all spoil your happiness in heaven.
Is that what you mean? Have I understood you correctly?
Not the way you seem to understand this. Not with the context you are giving this.
Right now, Jesus is in Heaven, and He is doing all He can to help people who are on their way to Hell. So, Heaven now does care about people on this earth. So, if you feel Heaven is horrible, I think you are not correct. Jesus left Heaven itself in order to reach us humans on this earth, and Jesus so suffered and died so we would not go to Hell, I understand. So, Jesus is not at all conceited . . . being so superior and better than we are, yet not looking down on us.
So, Heaven does care about miserable and awful people who are not all-loving. But Jesus says,
"if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" in Matthew 5:46. If by nature people only love certain people, their character is anti-God. They have love idols . . . those they can use for what they want, often enough. But Jesus came to save us from how we can be selfishly loving only our own family and friends.
This is another thing, then > Jesus wants me to love better, than to only love certain ones in my own family. You keep saying, what about caring for my own wife and children? . . . things like this. Jesus has us loving any and all people. But selfish character limits us to being able to love only ones we can possess and control and use for what we want . . . or to tend to this way of loving.
Only God can change our character so we become genuinely loving, then Hebrews 12:4-14 . . . so we are holy in love which makes us ready to share eternity with Jesus and one another. And the time for this change is now. People in Hell won't have this character; so they will not be capable of honestly desiring to be saved. Their motive might be to try to get to Heaven so they can destroy how Jesus has things > this is what Satan tried to do, and his children are like him > John 8:44.
So, there is the issue of character. God is perfectly good, by nature. He has no choice about how He is > He can not change from being so good in love > James 1:13-17.
But there is evil, the exact opposite in nature. There is no reasoning with evil. Plus, the spirit of evil (Ephesians 2:2) is like paper against fire. It burns if it is near fire.
Like this, ones not of God's love actually are burnt by Jesus. Satan could not stand Jesus. The devil tried to bring Heaven down to his awfulness and misery. So, for his own good he had to be cast out like lightning. And ones with him can not stand Jesus . . . or >
@Clizby WampusCat >
they suppose they have nothing against Him because they have never been in His presence.
It would be like paper in the presence of a bonfire. Possibly, they could burn worse in Heaven, than in Hell . . . because of their own nature.
"For our God is a consuming fire." (Hebrews 12:29)
So, it is not about if I would care about people or not. Their character without Jesus makes them so they would burn and greatly suffer torment in the presence of the most beautifully loving and caring One of all. So, if I am a child of God, I greatly need how God changes my character to so better than human so I am capable of sharing with Him in His love.
So, this is not a theoretical item, or about logic. This is about how God really is, and if He changes us to be capable of benefiting while with Him.
And I can't help them if I am miserable and suffering and sorrowful . . . like they are. That doesn't work. I need to become how they need to become so this can spread to make them capable of sharing intimately with God.
When Jesus came to this earth, people couldn't stand Him. They crucified Him.
"all the people answered and said, 'His blood be on us and on our children" > in Matthew 27:25. They were so upset and nasty against God's own Son, that they cursed their own children with the shed blood of Christ!!
So, feeling sorry for such people is not helping them. They need how God is able to change our character so we become capable of real loving. And we need to be their example of this so this can spread to them.
And by nature God is beautifully wonderful in joy and glory of love. You can not love, without being joyful. Caring does not mean suffering torment in worry. That's not loving, because it has you suffering. You can mourn and care without suffering torment of fear and worry.
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment." (in 1 John 4:18)
So, what I get is that worry with its torment is a reaction of possessive love. We can love and care about people, without suffering misery and torment.
So, in my opinion, whether or not I would care about people in Hell, or think of them, is not relevant - - except to motivate me . . .
now . . . to care about people and be their example so they can be changed in their character to join us. What we do now, by being examples of how people can become, is what needs our attention.