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I'm putting this here as a reminder to keep my mind and heart on the right note. Focus on the good. I have a lot to be thankful for. :heart:

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"You will keep the mind that is dependent on You in perfect peace, for it is trusting in You." Isaiah 26:3

Put your eyes on Him. Focus on Him. Repeating, "Looking at You, God" or "God is love" or something that switches your focus to Him will help send you those good vibes <3 <3 <3
 
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"You will keep the mind that is dependent on You in perfect peace, for it is trusting in You." Isaiah 26:3

Put your eyes on Him. Focus on Him. Repeating, "Looking at You, God" or "God is love" or something that switches your focus to Him will help send you those good vibes <3 <3 <3

Aww, thank you sweetness and welcome back! :yellowheart:

It wasn’t a sad post. This is a happy thread. Sometimes people focus on what’s wrong, what’s lacking, etc. I wanted to do something different.
 
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Do you mean from the video what kinds of style I like of prep now? Or what did I like back in high school and through the years?

From the video.

I'm not sure I'm with the Dior camp, I just checked out whatever documentaries my library offered.

I like vintage Dior. This is my favorite piece.

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Some years ago I was at a yoga retreat, sponsored by a friend, and I didn't realize before then how there was people that were obsessed with Coco Chanel, as someone mentioned that about her college years. It surprised me.

I love Chanel more than all the rest. Always have.
 
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Writing My Friends Victorian Letters

As in water face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects the man. —Proverbs 27:19

I've always dreamed of getting an old fashioned Victorian letter in the mail, so why not make it happen for my friends? Complete with tea dyed paper, diy wax seals, envelopes, stickers, botanical paintings, and pressed flowers.

 
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How to Determine Your Body Type

Your body type is based on the 3 main measurements of the body. This tutorial shows you: - how to measure your body correctly (bust measure, waist measure, hips measure) with a tape measure - how to determine your body shape from measurements and which celebrities have your body shape

 
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How to Determine Your Face Shape

Which hairstyle suits me? Here is how to find the best hairstyle for your face shape. Face shapes and hairstyles are a tricky topic. This video shows you how to find your face shape among the 6 main face shapes, with an easy test method.

 
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Musings

I love how the Lord drops a nugget in your spirit. While responding to a thread on Christian music I remembered how worshiping helped me push through a difficult task. I had a slew of Ikea items to put together and felt flat.

I sat down with my tools and asked the Lord to help me. I put on Kanye and a song came on I’d never listened to. I heard it before but the words hadn’t sunk in. Maybe it wasn’t time.


Something transpired within me. I was in a zone. My pace quickened and I was giddy with joy. Praising the Lord and singing along while wielding my Milwaukee.

I finished everything in one sitting. 4 cabinets and a sideboard. Not bad for a girl with a back injury. I snapped a picture for mum and my daughter was shocked. We thanked Him together.

When the final nail went in I stood in amazement. Walking around the house and surveying what He'd done. Not a morsel of pain was present. I put on a song and rejoiced. I'm not supposed to do things like this. But with God all things are possible. He knows my heart.


Maybe I need to do it again. I’ve got boxes from front to back and no energy to get it done. I love how the Lord provides the remedy before we ask. The project is a labor of love. But dismantling your house to create a mock studio while organizing is crazy! And I'm loving it.
 
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From the video.



I like vintage Dior. This is my favorite piece.

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I love Chanel more than all the rest. Always have.
That Dior dress is amazing. I like the material. And of course the silhouette that is created. As far as prep style from the video, there wasn't anything specific that stood out. Just new bits of information. I never realized that it was a androgynous style. It also made me think of some styles that I had through the years that were prep styles, maybe argyle socks, rugby from Abercrombie, maybe j crew plaid skirt, I like riding boots that were in the video but that's something I've never been able to attain yet, but I did find a jacket that is like a riding jacket in tan, and I may be learned that the styles are pretty subdued as far as color range.

On a different note, I wore a cami top I have always wanted to wear most of my life but never was able to. A friend had given me a garbage bag full of clothes sometime ago, and many of the pieces are things I would have never considered buying in the past. So I sort of celebrated tonight when I saw a couple girlfriends for takeout with heels this sort of Cami top and skinny jeans. I like how over time I've been able to evolve into different styles. It's not related to preppiness, but positive vibes. I'm always excited to explore a new type of style that I never thought I could ever wear. Last year was my first time wearing certain tops for running that I never thought I would be able to wear. And as I get older I am a little bit less self-conscious of some things.
 
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That Dior dress is amazing. I like the material. And of course the silhouette that is created.

I agree it’s gorgeous. This is one I’ll remake. But I’ll do two versions. The original has a lot of fabric and is sleeveless. I’d add a sleeve. I wouldn’t get much wear from the other. I’d do a daywear version that kept the silhouette and reduced the volume. You can achieve a similar look with a petticoat. That’s fine for an outing. I see the original as eveningwear.

Last year was my first time wearing certain tops for running that I never thought I would be able to wear. And as I get older I am a little bit less self-conscious of some things.

That was kind of your friend to share. Style alters with age. I started changing my look a few years ago. Now I’m lightening my hair and moved to a lighter aesthetic. Black was a staple but now white is my primary color. I wear icy pastels and softer neutrals. Experimenting is neat.
 
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Practical Pantry Organization

Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise. Without having any chief, officer, or ruler, she prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest. —Proverbs 6:6-8

She’s hilarious!

 
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agree it’s gorgeous. This is one I’ll remake. But I’ll do two versions. The original has a lot of fabric and is sleeveless. I’d add a sleeve. I wouldn’t get much wear from the other. I’d do a daywear version that kept the silhouette and reduced the volume. You can achieve a similar look with a petticoat. That’s fine for an outing. I see the original as eveningwear.
That sounds so nice. I love anything that accentuates the figure also. With age the materials have to change. I definitely can't wear many cotton types of clothes or clingy wear. I think overtime I probably will need to wear more shapewear underneath.

started changing my look a few years ago. Now I’m lightening my hair and moved to a lighter aesthetic. Black was a staple but now white is my primary color. I wear icy pastels and softer neutrals. Experimenting is neat.
I love it. The colors sound nice. I did a shift a decade or so ago two more pastels, and I've gotten things more lightened up over time but recently I've been doing some more neon or bold colors that I never thought I would do. I've also been interested in dressy white wear recently. I really want to get a white eyelet dress. I came across a Ralph Lauren white eyelet dress the other day at Macy's with spaghetti strap and a bottom that had medium inverted triangle cuts I really liked but the price point is not where I'm at yet. Maybe I will come across one at a resale shop. I actually own a nice one that might be similar but with more smooth patterns. I bought it 15 years ago and was planning to get rid of it until someone gave me a compliment on it when I used it for a costume photo. Enjoy your continued experimentation, and it's nice that you know sewing so you can tailor it to your taste. I've only sewn two things in my life which was in high school. And acetate polka dot skirt with ruffles and silk cool outs. I wore both of those things to death when I was in high school.
 
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History of Ideas: Wabi Sabi

At the heart of Japanese philosophy and wisdom lies a concept called ‘wabi-sabi’; a term which denotes a commitment to the everyday, the melancholic, the somewhat broken and the imperfect.

 
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That sounds so nice. I love anything that accentuates the figure also. With age the materials have to change. I definitely can't wear many cotton types of clothes or clingy wear. I think overtime I probably will need to wear more shapewear underneath.

One of the benefits of sewing is getting the right fit. But it isn't easy. You need a second set of eyes. Whether you're using patterns or drafting your own. The dress would require the latter. But that's a few years down the road. We cover draping but that's a couture piece. You need a lot of skill to replicate it. I'll have it in time. If I do the stint on Savile Row I could tackle it sooner. I'd have the tailoring skills to take it on.

I like natural fibers best. For most, the fabric isn't an issue. It's the style and cut that isn't flattering. I believe in dressing for your silhouette. You'll always look your best. You can camouflage figure flaws through drape, color, cut, pleats and darts. You can tweak the focal point and direct the eye elsewhere.

I love it. The colors sound nice. I did a shift a decade or so ago two more pastels, and I've gotten things more lightened up over time but recently I've been doing some more neon or bold colors that I never thought I would do.

I fell in love with mint green a few years ago. It's a calming hue that's soft and relaxing. That's probably where white came in. They're usually paired together. I started buying things in that color. A top or something for the house. I liked the way it made me feel.

I finally made the shift when I created a capsule. I planned to sew a wardrobe and made white the central theme. My classmates were doing the same and I liked the system. Then the pandemic hit and it was put on hold. But now I can. We're drafting everything. I don't have to worry about adjusting a pattern. But its more work upfront. Every variation requires a pattern! A-line, flounce, maxi, etc. You can customize everything. That's the fun part.

I've also been interested in dressy white wear recently. I really want to get a white eyelet dress. I came across a Ralph Lauren white eyelet dress the other day at Macy's with spaghetti strap and a bottom that had medium inverted triangle cuts I really liked but the price point is not where I'm at yet. Maybe I will come across one at a resale shop.

That's a nice piece. Eyelet is classic. Have you tried outlet malls? End of season deals are usually best.

Enjoy your continued experimentation, and it's nice that you know sewing so you can tailor it to your taste. I've only sewn two things in my life which was in high school. And acetate polka dot skirt with ruffles and silk cool outs. I wore both of those things to death when I was in high school.

Sewing is less expensive in the long run. But getting started is costly. I tell anyone who wants to learn that can't spend a lot to exploit their holidays. Ask for sewing related items for birthdays and Christmas. Most items aren't expensive when you consider them on their own. But a bit here and there adds up. You can build you sewing kit over time. Add one thing a month and before you know it you've got it all. You don't need an expensive machine. Amazon puts them on sale during the holiday. Brother's are inexpensive.

That's what I did with my house, work, and sewing. I don't buy everything. I can be cheap at times. More than I admit.
 
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