Getting Interesting

[miss]

When you are getting to know someone and it seems you are both getting interested...

Who should say something first?

Is it the woman's responsibility to let the man know she is interested?

 

[IDOXLR8]

It will happen when God thinks you are both ready. Trust me when I say he will let you know.

 

[invisiblebabe]

Someone had better make his or her feelings clear... otherwise, it'll never go anywhere!

 

[Tink]

I think that either person could step forward. If you feel more comfortable, let him have time to make it known that he's interested. If he doesn't do it in a reasonable amount of time, step forward.

In Christ,
Tink

 

[Macrina]

either way, I think. hopefully over time it will become apparent to both of you.

On the other hand, I have been known to be remarkably oblivious in the past, so perhaps my advice isn't the best.

 

[TriptychR]

Easing into that sort of mutual acknowledgment without words would be perfect, but sometimes people just need to be slapped upside the head and told that you're interested in them.

 

[ardeur]

Ahhh.. I am struggling with this very thing right now. I'm pretty sure that a friend of mine is interested in me, but he won't say anything, and I don't feel comfortable telling him that I'm interested. The other day he was complaining about this very problem to me, and I ALMOST got up the nerve to tell him how I felt about him, but I chickened out. LOL

 

[Living4Him03]

i'm in the same boat and have no idea. i have the opposite problem...i usually think they are interested in me and then find out they are just flirty or friendly.

 

[2Timothy2]

Is it the woman's responsibility to let the man know she is interested?

Wow, that would sure make it a lot easier for me. I'm all for that.

 

[gvsuman]

Wow, that would sure make it a lot easier for me. I'm all for that.

AMEN! but if she did get up enough courage to spill her feelings, she can't be so open about it that it's on her mind all the time when you two talk. I found that to be a big turn off. Just very casual hints that your interested are the best way to go

 

[fishstix]

When you are getting to know someone and it seems you are both getting interested...

Who should say something first?

Is it the woman's responsibility to let the man know she is interested?

I don't think it really matters which one goes first. Sometimes it will be the guy, sometimes it will be the girl. It depends on the individuals involved.

 

[Stanfi]

I think once someone has developed romantic feelings for someone else, then they need to let the other person know. Then the other person, can let it be known if they reciprocate those same feelings. If they do not then the realtionship should be stopped before it goes to far, and someone gets unecessarily hurt.

 

[miss]

Thanks for all your thoughts.