Here's the scenario...
I met this woman about two weeks ago online... I came across her blog and I wasn't even looking for anything more than just a good blog to read. However I come to find out we have literally almost identical interests and life views, she's my age, AND she lives in my area! I still wasn't going to... but I realized it was out of fear and so I just said to heck with it and asked her out for coffee.
I've been down the "online" road, and I had vowed not to go down it again, but I figured if we're this alike, what's the harm in asking? With most of the same interests at the very least I figure we could have a good, intelligent conversation with each other.
So I have a date this week... hopefully. Unfortunately we've been playing IM-tag, and it's been a little difficult settling on a time, but hopefully we can work it out for this week since I have a few days off.
Now, from reading her blogs and some of the messages she's sent, it seems she's really into the whole "first kiss" on the first date thing.
And I've never kissed a girl before... so naturally I'm terrified.
I'm terrified that if the date is only so-so and I go for it, she'll reject me. But on the other hand, I'm afraid that if I don't go in for it and it went better than I hoped, that she'll think I'm a chicken or something.
So here's the dilemma... let's say things go well, because I expect it to. Since it's only a coffee date... should I go for it? Or should I just straight-out tell her that I think a first kiss should wait until a second more formal "date"? (like a dinner or something).
Grr. I'm such a newb.
I met this woman about two weeks ago online... I came across her blog and I wasn't even looking for anything more than just a good blog to read. However I come to find out we have literally almost identical interests and life views, she's my age, AND she lives in my area! I still wasn't going to... but I realized it was out of fear and so I just said to heck with it and asked her out for coffee.
I've been down the "online" road, and I had vowed not to go down it again, but I figured if we're this alike, what's the harm in asking? With most of the same interests at the very least I figure we could have a good, intelligent conversation with each other.
So I have a date this week... hopefully. Unfortunately we've been playing IM-tag, and it's been a little difficult settling on a time, but hopefully we can work it out for this week since I have a few days off.
Now, from reading her blogs and some of the messages she's sent, it seems she's really into the whole "first kiss" on the first date thing.
And I've never kissed a girl before... so naturally I'm terrified.
I'm terrified that if the date is only so-so and I go for it, she'll reject me. But on the other hand, I'm afraid that if I don't go in for it and it went better than I hoped, that she'll think I'm a chicken or something.
So here's the dilemma... let's say things go well, because I expect it to. Since it's only a coffee date... should I go for it? Or should I just straight-out tell her that I think a first kiss should wait until a second more formal "date"? (like a dinner or something).
Grr. I'm such a newb.