Fireplace and Fellowship

[StarryEyes]

maybe we would spend more time together and find stuff to do? and maybe she would become more caring?

Is that what happened when you were more intimate?

 

[StarryEyes]

Sorry to go OT for a bit... I've responded to your request for the repost

I saw.. thanks dear!

 

[sootylashes]

Yeah.. I had this nagging feeling inside when I typed that out.. sorry.. thank you for adding that!

No apologies needed! But why nagging feeling?

That is sex used under the wrong circumstances. Sex is a beautiful gift from God.. when it's done under the circumstances He created it for! He is the Author of Life.. He doesn't just have principles for us to give us rules.. the principles are there to protect us! I had to learn that the hard way too (not with sex but other areas).. God loves us and He doesn't give us some set of rules to dictate us! They are always in our best interest.. He is always trustworthy even when we don't understand..

 

[Starpuppy]

Is that what happened when you were more intimate?

she became more intimate and caring..more willing to listen and talk about problems for a hour or two and it was back to normal

 

[Starpuppy]

No apologies needed! But why nagging feeling?

Sister Sooty, were you in the same problem as me? trapped in a relationship?

 

[One day at a time]

Sorry I disappeared for a bit. My brother in law was here and he and his wife are having problems and are talking divorce. So I needed to listen.....then my husband has come in to go to bed...he has to be up early for work.......

Anyway, I really need to be going as well.....my body has had enough for today. But I have so enjoyed the conversation and it seems like you all have it under control!

 

[sootylashes]

Sister Sooty, were you in the same problem as me? trapped in a relationship?

No no, I never was in that situation... I ended my previous relationship because I knew we couldn't wed, although we were engaged.

 

[One day at a time]

I'll come back tomorrow and get caught up on the conversation. I hope that you have gotten some help from us Star.

 

[Starpuppy]

No no, I never was in that situation... I ended my previous relationship because I knew we couldn't wed, although we were engaged.

that must have hurt

 

[sootylashes]

Sorry I disappeared for a bit. My brother in law was here and he and his wife are having problems and are talking divorce. So I needed to listen.....then my husband has come in to go to bed...he has to be up early for work.......

Anyway, I really need to be going as well.....my body has had enough for today. But I have so enjoyed the conversation and it seems like you all have it under control!

I'm sorry to hear they're talking divorce That word, to me, is just plain nasty. I hope things work out well for them! And goodnight, Odaat!

 

[sootylashes]

that must have hurt

It definitely did hurt... but I'm okay now. In fact, I'm in a new relationship, and it's better than my last.

 

[Starpuppy]

I'll come back tomorrow and get caught up on the conversation. I hope that you have gotten some help from us Star.

Have a good rest Sister one

 

[Starpuppy]

It definitely did hurt... but I'm okay now. In fact, I'm in a new relationship, and it's better than my last.

I am envious..i do want to be in a healthy relationship but sometimes i wonder if the problem is me? and not her

 

[Starpuppy]

Sorry I disappeared for a bit. My brother in law was here and he and his wife are having problems and are talking divorce. So I needed to listen.....then my husband has come in to go to bed...he has to be up early for work.......

Anyway, I really need to be going as well.....my body has had enough for today. But I have so enjoyed the conversation and it seems like you all have it under control!

ouch..i hope it would not resort to divorce

 

[sootylashes]

I am envious..i do want to be in a healthy relationship but sometimes i wonder if the problem is me? and not her

It could be both of you.

Anyway Starpuppy, I gotta go now. TTYL ok!

 

[One day at a time]

have a good day Sooty and Star! and a good evening to you Starry!


@ Star...one more thing before I leave....the problem doesn't sound like it's coming from you....except for wanting to hang on to it.....you need a healthy relationship for sure!

 

[StarryEyes]

No apologies needed!

But why nagging feeling?

Cuz I also know atleast one couple who only knew each other for a very short time before getting married and it has worked. Sorry, I should have spoken up.

 

[StarryEyes]

was

 

[StarryEyes]

Sorry I disappeared for a bit. My brother in law was here and he and his wife are having problems and are talking divorce. So I needed to listen.....then my husband has come in to go to bed...he has to be up early for work.......

Anyway, I really need to be going as well.....my body has had enough for today. But I have so enjoyed the conversation and it seems like you all have it under control!

Sweet dreams! Thanks for being so welcoming! Have a great night's sleep!! God bless you and hope to see you again soon!

 

[Starpuppy]

It could be both of you.

Anyway Starpuppy, I gotta go now. TTYL ok!

Bye Sooty and Odaat

Rest well odaat