Blaming Him for what? Not being bound by doctrines created by people reading into the Word what they want it to say? Not me.
You have different definitions of "justice" when using it in reference to humans and in reference to God, and that's a crock. That's simply saying that what we'd consider both unjust and barbarous in a human we must consider just and merciful in God. Baloney. And the idea of eternal torment in unscriptural anyway, a Doctrine of Men, if you like.
Underlined where you are mistaken.
Eternal torment is very scriptural.
The final state of the wicked and the good are vastly different. For the wicked, which includes the fallen angels, there is a terrible, eternal, and conscious torment in the Lake of Fire. This is often a difficult doctrine to deal with because some people have trouble reconciling God's great love, and His desire that no one perish, with this doctrine of eternal torment. After all, the idea of a loving God who would willingly condemn people to eternal conscious torment without hope, without redemption, and without any chance of the torment ending, can be very difficult to comprehend. Nevertheless, the issue is not whether such a teaching is pleasant or unpleasant. The issue is whether or not the Bible teaches it.
Not only is God loving (
1 John 4:8-10), gracious (
Exodus 33:19;
1 Pet. 2:3), and merciful (
Exodus 34:6;
Psalm 67:1;
James 5:11), but He is also holy (
Isaiah 6:3;
Rev. 4:8), just (
2 Thess. 1:6), and hates sin (
Psalm 5:5-6;
Hab. 1:13). This is why God punishes the sinner (
Matt. 25:46;
2 Thess. 1:9;
Heb. 10:29), because God is righteous and must punish, in order to sanction His righteousness.
The Bible teaches there is a fiery Hell, a place that Jesus warned people about.
- "And if your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; it is better for you to enter life crippled or lame, than having two hands or two feet, to be cast into the eternal fire," (Matt. 18:8).
- "Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example, in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire," (Jude 7).
- "And a second time they said, "Hallelujah! Her smoke rises up forever and ever," (Rev. 19:3).
- "And the devil who deceived them was thrown into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are also; and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever," (Rev. 20:10).
- "And His winnowing fork is in His hand, and He will thoroughly clear His threshing floor; and He will gather His wheat into the barn, but He will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire," (Matt. 3:12).
Therefore, we can see that the reality of Hell is clearly taught in Scripture. The final state of all who have sinned against God, and are not covered in the blood of Christ, will be eternal conscious agony in hellfire. This is not a pleasant prospect for either the Christian or the non-Christian to comprehend. No one wants to see such eternal judgment. If anything, it should motivate the Christian to evangelize all the more.
Sin Versus Punishment
Some might ask why the punishment is so severe, even for relatively minor sins. They often ask if someone who was a good person his whole life, and sinned relatively little, will suffer eternal anguish if he dies without trusting in Christ. Is that fair? The answer is stark; Yes, it is fair. It is fair because punishment is not related to the offense or the offender as much as it is related to the One who was offended. When we sin, we sin against an infinitely holy God. This is equivalent to an infinite offense because of
Who is offended. This is why we need an infinitely valuable sacrifice to "undo the damage," to satisfy God. This is why Jesus, who is God in flesh, and Who is of infinite value, is able to save us from the eternally righteous judgment of God. But for those who are not covered in the sacrifice of Christ, their offense against an infinite God will weigh upon them on the Day of Judgment, and they will suffer for eternity. Therefore, the punishment is properly related to the value of the One who was offended. Since God is infinite and eternal, so too must the punishment be eternal.
The thing is this. If we are Born Again, we also will be judged by Christ, not by our salvation, but by our works. Some will have great works and will go thru the refining fire and lose nothing. Some will not have any works or very little, they will lose something, but not their name from the lambs book of life.
I kind of see it this way. If you obeyed God who is eternal, which is why he punishes eternally. Then God will grant you the rewards. If you only did some things, maybe a little witnessing here and there, reached out your hand and wallet to help the poor, just enough to make you feel good, while also giving God the praise. Then you'd receive, just a portion of what God has to give.
We will all stand before the Bema Seat, and we will all go thru the refining fire. But because Christ died and nailed our sins to the cross and shed His blood for us. We will not see eternal torment.