Every Sunday must go to church?
A Christian's obligation?
If you were part of the New Testament Church (NTC) you would NEVER go to church on Sunday.
The NTC was known as "The Way" and was considered a sect of Judaism. As we all know, the Jews honoured the Sabbath on Saturday, not Sunday. That means the members of "The Way" would have not met on Sunday. In addition, Acts tells us they went from house to house each day.
From this picture, we see that being a believer in the messiah Jesus, I won't say a Christian as the word or idea had not come into being then, was a daily experience which they shared with each other, mainly over a meal, not communion.
And here is a clue that might tell us why Christianity grew so quickly. I have studied life in the Middle East and it is standard practice that if anyone comes to your home you ALWAYS offer them refreshment.
If you are sitting down to a meal, the visitor is ALWAYS asked to join you.
What better and easier way to share the good news of Jesus than over a meal noting that the NTC met daily and did four things. Discussed the apostle's doctrine (no sermons); prayed together; had fellowship, and most importantly ate together which is what breaking bread means. If I offered a guest a piece of cracker and a thimbleful of wine they would feel insulted.
Being Jews, (they did not stop being Jews) they would have observed the Saturday sabbath and attendance at the synagogue. Sunday would have been a foreign concept to them if, for no other reason, they would all work on Sunday.
Depending on whether these facts have relevance for you today or you believe that the church can make up its own rules and regulations to suit itself will determine whether you follow scripture or man's way of doing things.
And depending whether you live under grace or law will determine whether you have to go to church on Sunday or Saturday and whether you believe it is a rite that must be adhered to rigorously or not.
The church is often referred to as a family and I guess if you look at how the family deals with meeting together, you get some idea how it all works. As we all know, not all families do the same thing. There are may variables.
For example in our family, my daughter lives 100 km from where we live, so we see her each month for a visit and each month for a visit to her.
My son lives 4,000 km from us so we see him about twice a year.
In between, we are phoning or emailing or texting.
So you pays your money and make your choice. Essentially a family needs to do what makes being a family a rewarding experience. The church is no different. Attending meetings for the sake of it is not going to do anyone any good. What it needs are times of meeting together when everyone can feel part of it and contribute to the betterment of the family.
Sad to say, too many churches operate on a professional versus non-professional and there is very little communication going on between either or the non-professionals themselves.
One final thought. The verse that talks about not forgetting to assemble yourself together refers to meeting in the home, not Sunday morning religious services.