“Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." - 1 Timothy 2:11-12
Those words that were spoken and written by the Great Apostle Paul, they apply just as much to our lives today as they did 2000 years ago when he wrote them. In Genesis, God was the One who assigned our tasks, assignments, functions and gave us all our roles. We did not choose them, God gave them to us. Paul nor Peter did not make them up, they both knew the word of God and they were declaring it just as they knew it.
If ever you need confirmation when God speaks to you let it be through His Holy Scripture, that is why He gave us the Holy Bible so we can live by it day and night for the rest of our lives. For it is written: “Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word of God (Matthew 4:4, Luke 4:4).” God’s voice is never contrary to the Word of God.
God’s Word does not contradict itself, and even though in the Old Testament God used Miriam, Deborah, and Huldah (who are all women), that does not in anyway invalid that there is an order God has set out for us to live by today. Paul’s instruction was given to us in the New Testament and not the Old. Perhaps knowing some might be in disagreement with him, Paul even said God has chosen him to proclaim the truth, so don’t shoot the messenger
(I Timothy 2:7).
The Evil one went to the woman first in order to create dissatisfaction in her role, in order to create confusion with regards to the roles, for Adam was given the responsibility of leadership. Instead of leading Adam was following. Satan made it possible for Eve to debate the issue. If Satan can get anyone to begin to debate any of the issues that are already settled in the Word of God, he is two-thirds of the way there.
https://femiroyalblog.com/2017/06/12/uncompromising-biblical-truth-part-i/