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To get "back to formula", I think we need to see men and women as equal, but celebrate the differences as well. My wife and I revel in the differences, and we most definitely see each other as equals - though we take on different roles in the relationship. Those roles align with our God given abilities that just "happen to" align with a few thousand years of human culture.Being that complementarianism is merely patriarchy by another name, and patriarchy is a result of the fall according to Genesis 3:16, I do have a problem with it the same way I have a problem with painful childbirth and struggling to feed ourselves by the sweat of our brow. There isn't any other thing that happened that day that we don't seek to alleviate, and patriarchy should be no exception. It is an enemy like sin, sickness, and death.
Adam and Eve had a perfect world. They fell, the earth was cursed, and they were cast from the garden. In the very next chaper of the Bible we see: distrust (Gen 4:3) anger (v 5) disappointment (v5) murder (v8) deceit (v9) despair (v13) fear (v14) apostasy (v16) polygamy (v19) and revenge (v 23-24)
NONE of that is any good, and so-called complementarianism isn't either, because it is part and parcel with everything else above. But it will be defeated because God is out to redeem this world and he never loses!
Jordan Peterson talks about what happen in a truly "egalitarian" culture. Women and men just naturally migrate to different roles. He uses Sweden as an example. When truly left to our own devises, men and women, generally speaking, migrate to different roles and are both over or under represented, depending on the roles. The exception would be childbirth. All people who give birth are, in fact, female. There are no exceptions. Zero.
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