I have read every one of this thread's comments most carefully. A very good OP question. I can tell you this. If someone like me who was raised in a "benevolent dictatorship" as a child could change to the position I currently hold on these matters, then patriarchy and complementarianism has indeed lost ground. My parents based their entire life's mission on raising us 4 kids with a rather strange doctrine. They believed that a wife was required to obey her husband in EVERYTHING - bar none - even if that included a command for her to sin. In that case, they believed that God would not charge the wife with sin in that case, but instead "He shall bear her iniquity" if the husband caused a wife or daughter to commit a sin at his command. This doctrine of theirs was based on that single pronoun "Her" in the Numbers 30:15 verse. Which I found out some 50 years later wasn't even there in the LXX. It reads instead that "He shall bear HIS iniquity", if the father or dad caused a wife or daughter to sin by making them cancel a vow.
Of course, this upbringing brought about 4 marriages that were all profoundly patriarchal in their establishment. In my case, I have in the past 5 years or so finally tossed this garbage overboard, but it has come at a cost. Freedom is worth any cost, however. Especially if it is a freedom that Christ has promised me all along.
Some of my testimony I put in some very lengthy comments I made on a well-known Christian author's website, where he had a post that was reviewing the controversial texts about women teaching and supposedly being silent in church (The 1 Timothy 2:11-15 and 1 Corinthians 14:33-40 texts). Over the two and a half years since I wrote those lengthy comments giving a list of scriptural proofs against the artificial restrictions on women in church ministry, I have been steadily checking almost every day the number of views this post receives. To date, there have been 31,220 readings of those comments I made. Usually about 40 views every day. This tells me that this subject is one of continued soul-searching in the Christian community, which is a good sign. Other than the well-known Christian author's negative responses, I do not know how those comments of mine are being received by others, since no one has offered a single rebuttal of them since I finished posting them. If anyone is interested in a link to those scriptural proofs I gave, I can supply that here if requested.