Jesus himself compared God to a loving, perfect heavenly Father.
Christianity is about a relationship with a personal God; not a disembodied and disinterested Spirit.
Who said anything about a disembodied and disinterested Spirit?
God is above all things. He knows all things; nothing that happens will cause God to say, "I wasn't expecting that/that was a coincidence/give me a minute, I need a plan B".
Of course --Agreed.
He knows everything - but that is not at all the same as saying "I need Gill (me) to have a chronic illness for 18 years"/"my plan for him is that he becomes an alcoholic"/I want to cause that child to grow up with an abusive father."
The thief comes to steal and destroy; Jesus came that we might have fulness of life,
John 10:10. Have a guess at who the thief might be, and why he might want to destroy God's people and world.
We have fullness of life in Christ --not in evil events (or in deliverance from them or sustenance and comfort through them), nor in God's good, but unrealized, intentions toward us. Fullness of life in Christ includes all the sustenance, comfort, deliverance and anything else he has in mind to do, but also in our participation in his suffering. Fullness of life in Christ includes also a removal of affections toward the things of the flesh, such as the demand for self-determination as opposed to the joyful submission to Christ, and so many other things.
You place substance in the events and flavor of the things of this passing mist of temporal existence. God is removing us from that point of view.
"So while we are in this tent, we groan and are burdened, because we do not wish to be unclothed but to be clothed instead with our heavenly dwelling, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life." --from 2 Corinthians 5
God gave humans the ability to choose - choice is a God given gift.
If God can choose and we are made in his image, what do you think that might mean for us?
Dogs and monkeys, even robots, can choose. So what?
But you want to claim that by being made in his image it means actual autonomy --separate ability apart from Christ?? "Without me you can do nothing."
We will find in Heaven, I believe, that we had not been complete persons, until we see him as he is, and KNOW our dependence on him for every detail. Not only will we see that, as concerns the past, in this timeframe, but THERE IN HEAVEN we will KNOW that apart from him we are nothing.
God has a huge riddle for us, full of delight, and has given us the answer, in which we currently are unable to see the depth of it.
No, people deserve death and hell for rebelling against God, but he chose not to let us suffer that.
You make it sound as though we, Christians, deserve to be punished when we mess up - yet if we have received Jesus, that is not the case.
People deserve death and the Lake of Fire, according to their sin. Show me otherwise. I do not disagree that they deserve it for rebelling, but that is sin. But I was not talking about the born again, there, but unbelievers.
You might notice, however, that I did not say we Christians will be punished if we mess up (though I will easily say we deserve it --thank God for the Savior). I know it is easy to react to something you read as soon as you read it, but really, you should try to keep connected what was written connected. You react here to what you quoted out of context. What I said was not disconnected with what you quoted re mercy and grace, and reacted to with the following:
We certainly have eternal life and every spiritual blessing in Christ because of his mercy and grace; yes.